Am I a bad person because I don\'t find anything especially agreeable over being pregnant?

This is my 3. Baby and a BIG -Surprise. I have myself incredibly b on bygone beingös and furious moves, to the semitrailer-excited being. I know much people-going on it and on and strömt over pregnancy, but I could make do for myself without it. I wünsche really, that the baby could really select you and delivers into a blanket from a stork.

I pee every hour. I place f auf\'tühlt itself right. I have high blood pressure, therefore I, \'m automatically "high-risk" and must scare the joy of nascent endured $hitless from doctors over this this something if and could be, I never have had all questions despite it, and my BP always returned to normal in all my pregnancies in the middle somewhere. Then, I hate women, therefore it sucks für me, to must itself/themselves, feels ultra sullen and must sitzen\'s-Büro every two weeks with approximately 10-15 other hormonal women in the doctor in a room and any deal like us all, is in a particular club best friends and chats over cervicses, ultra sounds and bottle or nursing!!!

I know. ICH\'m only a bad person. Otherwise nobody probably feels it.

from Maddy

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You/they know, then, something, if you are a bad person, must be I AWFULLY.
I took the trouble with my husband, in order to become pregnant, for two years, and now, I am 17 weeks, and enjoying of it not very frankly at all... and they continue to tell me that this is the easy part.
I am so uncomfortable, and although I finally am over the morning illness, now, I have, no energy with all, and terribly back pain (probably sciatica), got simply DREADFUL heartburn, almost ALL of the time, since 10 weeks.
I sleep well no cause, that I cannot get comfortably, if I finally fall asleep, that I wake up in order to go again, you pee, and of course my husband touchy since every time if I wake up, it also wakes HIM/IT.... PLUS, if I get in in half a hour of the sleep here and there, I have really strange and disturbing dreams.
I am most of the time of such a putrid mood, and now, I begin, one little depresses, and, to become really lonesome, because I was put on preventive permission of my seemingly "uncertain" work with 12 weeks.
I didn\'t increase much weight in this, but everything seems to have switched or some cause, that doesn\'t still fit me ANYTHING, I smooth, you have, sweats, I cannot get in it!
Mostly I feel only so pathetic, I am only 4 months into a "easy" pregnancy, everything goes big, no problems for all so far, but I only feel LOUSY, and as such a whiny baby over all this. I place f auf\'teven can ühlt to people over like I at, as I feel real, you cause, they will believe all that I am only a corrupt brat,...
Yah, we are quite well bad people... this stinks.

And I hate IT if people rub my stomach!!!

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from Mel731 KEIN, you are no bad person. Pregnancy is a training für women. A 9 month of training. Hängen you girls in there. I weiß es\'s tough. But on the end if the baby was born, everything it will be worth.

through amosunkn.... honey baby, if it another way to get genetic copies from me and my husband, gave, that I would be the first on this band vehicle.

I love my child, I love to know Iam, this him/it does, but i hates, because he/it is pregnant. Everything thereover is unenjoyable. Property value it, but more exactly unenjoyable. And iam in perfect health and is not closed no reason like it... other than i only dont.

through minuet, I hated to be pregnant. I threw every day für the tense numerous first 6 months high. I was horribly depressed. I believed, thereß itself nobody about me concerned, and they took care only of the baby. I wanted myself wkills locally and felt me too guilty, over hurtful the baby, to do, with it. Therefore Sie\'wieder not alone. Pregnancy is miserable, but at least it, s not permanent.

from Lisha Ihr not a bad person if you don\'t like, shares to be pregnant, from people to, you don\'t do mostly if they don\'t feel good throughout the whole pregnancy, but likes you, that are said, that this is your third, some people tint down the excited part, but otherwise you are a big mommy and going through these whole difficulties to have this child whether it was an unexpected one, or not.

I am hun with you, in that troubles me I, although feeling like it believes you everytime, how much joy felt you, as you bore the other 2 children,..
That an exact precouis-Sache is to be kept it, in itself, in mind
continue, you, to smile O.K. b in the end,
God blesses you

from Kathy, I hated to be pregnant. I hate Beschränkungen and hated uncomfortably beng. You/they are not alone.

from Christian C i does ihate, he/it should be touched, and rubbed like buddah i-Haß, the whos bigger and small with others pregant-Familienmitgliedern is compared. my friends, that of Käfer is sufficiently heavy without to fall asleep a bear, that sleep beside the you.this, snores is my second and i hates, because he/it is pregant, so that this baby was a surpripse, but only thinks, is an i to be a right has one * * * * * * * * * so now cards you, if something makes i wanna dont, my back does it the whole matter milk of harmed feet sore, youll feels better.

beside step, I had only my first, and I know the feeling, I can definitely tell to it how you feel. You not badly comes it at all for it, to feel this way, heran\'s better knows you in the last days that, if the time is almost upward to be fallen, the baby. Hängen you girls in there, youll lives!

from Redawg J, you are not alone... many women doesn\'t enjoy, because they are pregnant,... it should love only company, that says us, they we it! I find chipper, overexcited pregnant women, who also sometimes nauseated!! Sie\'ll gets through it! And speak also with your doc, if you find, these negative Gef placeühle past your pregnancy away, maybe you suffer from any postpartum, that also is normal, only nobody talks about it. Glück... and thinks, with all that kooky chicks pregnant, who can, a laughter to haben\'t held the mouth over the joys to be pregnant!

from Jessica_... I loved, because it was pregnant. I know also much woman, that it ahßte. Es\'s heavily our your Körper and on your mind. Everything will be past soon. Sie\'wieder not a bad person, if not you it geniusßen. Many Frauendon\'t.

through stocks4a.... to times, if I felt like you, did, because I had my first offspring after old 35. Doctors treat you like you, never should be capable to have a healthy child.

You/they spoke me into taking an Amniozentese, and I regretted it. It brought me to it, two weeks long my pregnancy, to hate, before I the Pr after itüfung and 4 weeks had, while I waited for the results.

I can understand your feelings. This bygone pregnancy, I had pregnancy rhinitis the de Irishman time and breathe couldn\'t. I was träge, had kept 20 pounds from the prior pregnancy and had won to a point, BEFORE where I NEVER had gone. I was miserable and couldn\'t to get out the baby waits.

Split of your feelings to be uncomfortable from it is, but I know that you become this child dear, particularly, if it gets out you!

Been there, done this.
Be careful.

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from Stacy no, you are not alone. I felt the same way a miscarriage through all my pregnancies, 2 babies, I found, thereß only two good matters from pregnancies comes out, no period for 9 months and a beautiful baby. I wünsche sometimes, that I would have let my tubes bound according to my last child, but then, I believe that I could want a later along the line.

Dont worry, fortunately pregnancy lasts eternally not. You/they are not any bad person either. Glück!

from LoriBeth, there is not any fight here to be pregnant, is completely miserable. bemühen you itself only, you on the bribe too richten\'ll has, as soon as it is everything past, you will feel better much for itself as soon as your baby from your stomach and in your arms is!

from Jabberwo.... we spend much time with it with it we don\'t fill any picture to thrash us, because we think. There is not any ideal "Fathers know family well." The fact, thereß you concerned is, says me, that you are a big mommy. Hängen you girls in there!

through chinagrr... i had a relatively "easy" pregnancy, won only 18 pounds., no problems, no swelling, were fähig, to wear my regular clothing for most of my pregancy and so on, and i didn\'t enjoy, because he/it was pregnant AT ALL. i was convince that any woman, who said, that she/it was either loved insane or lying to be pregnant."

, not to enjoy any pregnancy, doesn\'t mean, that you are a bad person,... and definitely doesn\'t mean it, that you don\'t love your baby.

hang in there!

through jm1970 YES YOU/THEY is A DREADFUL DREADFUL MONSTER!

do you not do like being fat? You/they place aufmag \'t Nadelstöße and pokes at the best left unsaid in places thatare? You/they place, \'t Spa opens itß not, the whole time to pee and to sometimes make it to the bathroom? You/they place auf\'t like being scared to the death, and from control...... something für a person is you?

NORMALLY!!!!!!!!!

My sister-in-law is a big mommy and she/it didn\'t like, because she/it was really pregnant. I love, because it is pregnant, because I have endometriosis, and it is the single time in my life, that I feel healthy,... I could manage without the fear......, even so enthusiastically as it am I, I could in the Makes do medical officer without some of the beamers.

Do you love your children? Do you take good worry of them? If you are a große mommy and ich\'m certainly a good person.

Why do you hate women, however? That is quite strong.

MeineMeine mommy was FURIOUS, as she/it found out her/it/them, was pregnant with me... would get on into the car not even with my daddy with the doctor, at that time, you had to go to the doctor, and my grandparents had to come and they get.

We are nearer than my other siblings... she/it was older for this time (36), and Catholic doesn\'t cover so that all our friends had 3 children,..... my father\'s brittish-Familie believed, that people had two children, and that was right that "we are no pigs my honored one,... we doesn\'t have any garbages." You/they was not enthusiastically.

But she/it now is... she/it is a good mommy...... is not you strictly with itself...

HP was I two years long and in treatment sterile, so that, if you get those people, that shame you and say, that you should be grateful, or you don\'t earn your children, you itself reminds that said one of the sterile women, it was fine... of course became I finally pregnant maybe, that I felt different, if I was not!

through bluemoon Do, you don\'t say, that you are a bad person, believes i that all are on the inside good. i-Don\'t weiß, as your life was, but it could be one of the reasons why you don\'t like any pregnancy. let you this look through depression maybe ever at your going, all don\'t distribute the same way with depression. it could be also your hormones, that of Ktrough goes alot of the alterations örper if your pregnant one, of course you should it wissen\'s for him/it your 3. Baby, the best matter, that you do, is können, going speaks with your doctor, and maybe he/it can refer you at a few advisory. i wünscht you the best and i-Hoffnung, you look better for you, your family, and most important for your next baby.

through Judy, f God picked you, the mother of this baby, to be. Maybe you
can become God nearer. EsEs will help you in the rise
from your children.

through in first of all is you no bad person. Whoever stole you the right, your own Gef,ühle, to have? This wasn\'t planned, therefore as you out found, you had to be probably filled no time with enthusiasm. Es\'s like you bemühte itself, to have another baby, therefore was it similarly, that this part of the excitement phase was faster fowarded right at you. Her/its/their Kgoes to certainly already know you örper through tons of hormonal alterations of the ich\'m, but you lose patience and this "gushy, that feel", important because you must worry everything again about the same stuff across.

If a Mrs. ERSTES things has child for her, she/it is particular careful, silence wants to detain, and filled with enthusiasm over all. Minderj stuff thoseährige! You/they probably have everything and you gesehen\'wieder for him/it this on the other hand annoyed development. Maybe people treat Don\'t like you for you knows you something and this urks. VielleichtVielleicht bring the Mad little at the office it in connection with eachother b/c\'s her/its/their 1. or 2., and therefore it still is new for them.

Don\'t cause any worry for you. My friend got pregnant a 2. It expects time and a didn\'t. She/it had the großen time baby blues. Now, her/its/their unexpected son is almost 6 years old, and she/it fails ihn\'slife altered for her/it/them for the better and gave her/its/their so many memories.

Her/its/their 2 current children and your baby will grow up, who were, and will leave memories, that exceed the baby blues far, that you have at the moment, to you.

Best wishes.

my 1 was through ne11. Pregnancy dreadful. Tomorrow illness für the first 7 months, the first trimester cost weight because meal would not remain in my stomach. Schließlich felt the last trimester better I me, but..
I developed vor-eclampsia, and I was delivered because of the high BP and a shutter baby 10 days long before a planned part into the hospital. The baby had colic and never slept, but soy formula helped schließlich of the colic. It was a große pregnancy through no means.

But, my more unexpectedly 2. one, this, Doctors told me that I would have a hard time to become pregnant because of a tilted uterus, was very easy. No illness and a keastern baby, who slept until 5, is with two weeks old.

Therefore, each pregnancy is different. I hope, thereß Ihr 3. easy sailing is. I weiß of experience, that to have a difficult pregnancy, a hard memory is to be erased. I wünsche you you and your baby the absolutely best.

through princess Veronica Mama no, your not a bad person! I felt the exact same way as I was pregnant! I was 5 months long, so sick gl sick as a dogätte I, decreased during my pregnancy! , not, thereß I didn\'t needs to it, but, for over one month, I was glad being pregnant, then, all the hell broke out. Ärztetermine-Sein again began", because he/it Dr. was with another patient out and felt that tired sooo, that you don\'t think, you can your eyes let alone your function as work/home opens. I tell people, that the best matter over my pregnancy it was, because he/it was past. But as my schöne daughter she/it entrance (over Notfall-c-Teil) (yes) did, it was hell right until the end, it was all the value it:) my husband and I views, since he/it now has another child, and seriously..... I fears, because it is again pregnant!

from Syri S, you are no bad person. i genoß also never really, because he/it was pregnant. i always said, thereß i sooner through delivery 9 times would go, as 9 months of pregnancy. i believes, thereß most of us from time to time this way feels. Don\'t is so strict with itself. as yearn as your glad one, if this baby comes, this be all this important.

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from these r my people the single good matter of it, to be pregnant, doesn\'t have any period!lol!its, that is annoyed, to hear other women saying, how is such a wonderous and more beautifully thing.whats beautifully over nascent prolonged and sleep deprived?your not a bad Personen-youre-Normale!!

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