Nursing of mommies: Did you lose your social life into having your baby?

1. from me is not pregnant, but I am a young woman, whom children have definately someday, & everything of them at least for one year wants to nurse. ICH\'m, he/it has I can difficulties, because they mean, f not without my babyür more than 3 hours is? How do you have a night with your husband out? or does something still do in lives, that require 3 or more hours from you maybe? Do you help, my goal is to be nursed unrealistically?

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I never said once that this was a fear, I want myhusband and have children, so that it is a current topic of the discussion,... BTW, I want to nurse one year long strictly. no bottles

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I don\'t know about all other, but I am glad to share my experience.

First from, also a young woman is i =] i turned only 22, & i has boy a BREASTFED 6month old ones baby.

DieDie 1. 3 months of my son\'s life, simply you you, that is said i didn\'t have any social life at all that went only fast too walmart i, had to be i at home, about my son everytime, to feed, he/it was hungrily, & this is not any 3hours, it is from any 30min-2hours with the best things, if a baby is this young,... Breastmilk is digested very fast so soon, that baby is AGAIN hungry, & happily I i had a slow eater, every feeding lasted somewhere from 30 min until 1.5hrs!! yes, i was at home the whole DAY, that all i ever did, feed was my son, sometimes not even took a shower i for itself, no time for me had AT ALL i... the house always was a complete chaos.

As my son was, 3months old one bought a pump i, best invention by men kind,lol & i began pumping & milk. As i worked didn only i as a nurse, much wants to go out \'t, in Nursing public is not prefered very comfortable, therefore i for me in order to remain with baby at home..., after begun the pump more, the dinner, i i to go out visit friends, the shopping center, had gotten and so on & i lived from the bottle, as we were out.

Now, my son is almost 6months old one & all his/its short life, he/it is had nothing but mommy milk, i is, so with pride i was capable to provide my son WELL with him/it, there is to work big joy as a nurse for me, nursing loves i, i loves to see my son eating, has looked at teary i, it s the best feeling in the world, at least for me. I now worked 2 months long & this pump gave me the chance to continue the nursing relationship, you smooth if I per day am 8hrs from my boy away. His/its F10minutes last ütterungen, is of each 3-4hours & i enjoys each second of them..

This wknd hubby & i went out & had some beverages, one little too much, (LOL),.. Grandma babysat my son. I geniusße my life so very much, i goes out, every time if wants i to it,.., but i-Don\'t really often wants to it, i Love, that is with baby at home,.. Hubby & romantic data have place you i at home, after baby fell asleep, any music, you drink wine.. my life is better so much, because my son arrived, < 3


Therefore.. NO, your goal is not unrealistic.. if you want to do it, you can.... you will FIRST have no social life AT, but that is only a tiny sacrifice to the small person, whom most love you in the world, =]

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through Kelly M, the first of several months are the hardest things because no, you can go hours without the baby for more than a couple nowhere. This doesn\'t means, thereß you and your husband cannot go out, sometimes the baby away a couple to consume grandmother hours long or to only interject. ICH\'ll admits, thereß I feeling like me hated, no one could not do anything more, but the baby is of use SO VERY MUCH from nursing that it THEREFORE is value it. You/they could try pumping and leaving of the bottle so that the baby can eat, thereß during Sie\'wieder from, you want only the not too much does, because, except if you, while you are out, can pump, you don\'t want to miss to feed sessions because it can influence your milk supply. You/they goal, at least f,ür one year, to nurse, is not definately realistic! That also was my goal, and my daughter still now is 9 months and nursing and the groß Machen!

through??... d... hello if everyone can be about drinking coffee and walk about smoking, can you nurse your baby outside a home. You/they dont muß itself in a bathroom stall hides, but has the decency at least to cover the breast for you with it others, that must watch dont. I had pig and trust my babysitter, so that we go out each couple of the weeks, my hubby and I only last weekend went out and played swimming pool. Only, because you really have one children there, whom doesnt means,ß Ihr life past is! it means, thereß Ihr totally grown on now and you can always do something, that you want. Nursing is likely, the best matter, that you you für a baby and with consecration and patience could do, it can do for it, however, you yearn, you want that I bought one bottle and hand personally expressed, every time if I needed a pumped bottle.

from Melissa S, you can absolutely nurse and can still have a social life. I leave my son with my Ehemännern, you kick mommy with one bottle of pumped milk, and he/it only punishes. I Hafen\'t wanted him/it fleaves more than some hours ür, but I could only punish. You/they könnten one little fully from it, not to live for a while, becomes, so that maybe you want to bring a pump, if es\'s that goes, to be more than 4-6hrs.

Most of my friends have children so that we normally quote friendly matters so that my son goes only with us. He/it remains only with somebody, if I and dh a night, from which normally only dinner or a film are, needs.

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from Debbie F, It is not unrealistic, and I applaud you for thinking ahead, there are several possibilities, you can pump and stores your milk, if you deem yourself sufficiently happily, that nurse can cross to have about your children about the same time as a friend or a family member, that also works you as a nurse, or if it is an emergency, you can always supplement with formula, only dont expects, that it takes him/her, or as it. As I nursed my son and had purchases and so on,... I took him/it with me.

through loves Fanny Adam Great, you expect breast feeding one whole year long. Es\'s not unrealistically with all. You/they können pumps, milks you and leaves behind you der\'s it for the person that cares about the baby. Many mommies do this, and it works groß. Some mommies close theück, to work after some months and to still make it, to keep breast feeding. But Sie\'ll sees at the exact beginning, thereß you even for 3 hours not to away from your baby will want. A newborn is like a bad addiction. You/they want the whole time him/her with you:)

through sweet roll & Bub\'s mom Unrealistisch? No, not with all.

It is unrealistic to think that, if you have a child, you capable, to go out, will be, so often, as you did, before you had him/her.

I rarely leave my children, they almost everywhere go with us, as even very young babies. I place l definitely auf\'täßt she/it on it early back and could leave a baby much more for itself for it doesn\'t introduce as\' 3 hours\'., but breast milk to pump in one bottle is completely fine to go with a babysitter if you go out into a while once.

from new mommy, my husband and I were capable to go out on a date as our baby was only 4 weeks old. We had a party and went to other social events since it. As yearn as you, you plan advance, and you have verständnisvolle friends, you place auf\'t has to alteration, that you are completely.

through Morgan de la pumps faye that you can go out you only breast milk with a pump into a storage receptacle and has the babysitter use as used, breastmilk can be used and is stored one day long, but as soon as you have a baby, that knows you i, then is some hours wouldnt wanna for longer apart, you hope that this helps,

from Daisyhil... something for a bizzarre-Angst! Why you worry therefore, if even still you aufsetzen,hat \'t a baby? SieSie kmilks quickly önnen and it in the fridge stores.

through Jeorge\'s mommy? ??? You/they können always your milk in bottles pumps, so that you can go out and therefore make for your partner Spaß to nourish the baby also.

from La, one bottle also contends Bohemian, whom you and the application can pump.

from Nina lee Get a good pump.

All new mommies relaxed part of her/its/their social life for a while, nursing or not.

through lesmith, This is to be nursed a problem for it, mommies and formula, the mommies nourishes. Her/its/their Ma priority and you are no more ängel, social life rotates around Baby\'s-Zeitplan. I wouldn\'t says his/its unrealistic one in order to say you wants to nurse you strictly and was you decided no however bottles going to fasten you. There is not anything wrong with pumping milk and giving from it on occasion in one bottle, as soon as baby has, you hang this from nursing. Es\'s still breastmilk! It really made Spa for meß, it to pump milk b/c allowed it my husband it to be capable to nourish our son and it, any binding time, and I any alone time, gave them! I believe, thereß we all believes, that we know exactly, as we want to do matters, as soon as we have it babies doens besides a quantity of the time, work out this way exactly \'t. You/they become is surprised, as you will adapt yourself. I swore, thereß I our son never a paci would give, and now, I have one haha in each room of the loose screw.

through * *0_o * * I nursed for the first 6 months and took only my daughter with me, that we went, somewhere. If away I from her für a feeding will be, I pumped only in one bottle. But as we live on family away, that very rarely was opportunity. Mostly I took her/it/them only with myself, I went to the cinema and nursed in the theater, I went shopping and nursed at the shopping center, I went to bbq\'s with friends Häuser, nursed there, and so on the good matter is over boobs that they are very wearable, lol. I always was discreet and most from the time, that nobody wußte, that I was nursing. With a Freunde-Haus, I would go only in a bedroom or something if there was mixed company. Most of the time if you have a new baby, you become most of the time and it with them anyway his/its lived you a question. Sie\'ll sees:)

from E and S\'s mom, that your goal is not unrealistic, good for you, that took the trouble to BF at least for one year! I will do the same matter, my baby now is 4 months old. If you want to pump you previously in order to go out you and wants to leave you one bottle of pumped milk. You/they können\'t is you, however, to yearn from your pump or your baby away itself, you can become uncomfortably full. You please notice also most newborns drink way more häufig at the breast, as it was every hour in the first week every three hours, and every feeding lasted at least half a hour. Now, we are switched on w one every 2 hour scheduleährend the day, but she/it sleeps through the night. However, each baby is different, my cousin, \'s-Baby, the same age as mine, aß every 2-3 hours of the beginning. Ernheads you itself of the demand.... luck, every time if you become pregnant,...:)

from CaraMia2, you don\'t lose your social life completely. I gewann\'t lies, however, it becomes f on the rear burnerplaced ür a while. Her/its/their goal of nursing is not unrealistic, but you müssen for the curve balls ready is, thrown your way. I to said, thereß I one year long strictly quiet becomes, no bottles and so on.... through the 3. Day home gave up on my daughter of snapping on it. i worked together with a lactation advisor, that me schließlich said that only the feeding of her considers I to pump and must fill my milk. I became enttäuscht completely, but got fast \'s over it, it, doesn\'t like, that she/it didn\'t still get my milk. By four months, my Br correspondedüste a 40F and my back, only the whole time killed for me. About not too erwähnen that i from the me anytime into a private room constantly includes wearily was, I was only out so that I could pump, and if my breasts hurt didn\'t I beyond the belief, until I did.

I believe that it is fantastic, that your goal is being done for a yearly straight, but only reminds, millions of babies were lifted only on formula and were turned from fine. You/they aren\'t a bad mother, if you give up nursing and m change to formulaüssen. Nursing is not easy, and can extremely stressful is, and the last matter of this you lack should be emphasized during that, what should be one of the gladdest points in your life. Glück,

through sara4150.... not only I chose personally to go out because I can do that, if my baby older and I accustomed miss is, from on matters, while she/it is a baby. But no only because you nurse you doesnt-Mitte, jargon goes out or has a life, you m,üßten only milk for your baby, in order to have, pumps while you are out, and you really full would become, while you are out, but you can only the out pumps, if you come home. My mommy took me für approximately 7 or 8 hours a night out, to get out the house, and my daughter was fine. I würde me, not to go in the first 3 months out, troubles, or until your baby is a pro at the moment being worked as a nurse to introduce like the bottle, the baby can confuse, and you could not be capable to accelerate him/it back. Glück.

from Skittles, M & M, of which I believe, are wannabees that you toss up an EXCELLENT-Frage for them. As a mother of three children, ages 9, admits 6 and 7 weeks, I, \'ll, thereß of nursing can get, one little challenging sometimes. My older two children are VERY complicated in sport and other activities, and sometimes, they have full-time, outside the tournaments. Das\'s, if balances mu Iß, because it has my infant son with me to work as a nurse, because he/it cannot be in 90 degrees of weather outside all the day, or my older son\'s disappointing through this not visits of his/its tournament. Therefore yes, sometimes, I am from my son as three hours increases away. Indeed, in six further weeks, ich\'ll is to theück, to work full-time, BTW... I does more AWAY, as my husband, therefore if both of us was to be remained at home, does, it would be he/it.

I will probably procure for it a thumb down, but I very often don\'t pump any additional feedings... I uses only formula. If away ich\'m für several hours I pumps, so that I am not become saturated, and works as a nurse, if I am at home. Works nursing REALISTICALLY ausschließlich not for everyone. It work für my family, and I must this makes the best for me was\'s, as well like you what is the best for you, does will have to. Es\'s funny ten as I my first son had, people were againstover formula feeding much more tolerant.