Nursing of dilemma.....?

I am pregnant and please to nurse on it, as soon as my baby was born. I have many information thereover read, and it begins, with all possible matters, that they say, uncanny and hard, to seem, injustice can go. I only wanted to know whether any women from there actually a really hard time had to nurse. I place auf\'t believes, thereß it will be complicated, so, but I know that it is not so easy how my husband believes that it is. He/it thinks, thereß you the breast offers, baby nurses and everything are healthy.

through jeremysg...

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Nursing is something, which you must learn, during the doing of it. I nursed all 3 of my children.... .1st a für 2yrs, 2. a für 1yr., and my 3. a für 1 yr. Some babies snap easily on it, but most babies müssen also time, to need, to learn. As soon as they get it, they become groß do. It könnte to times tough seems, but believes me, him/it, such a particular bond, that you will create with your baby, \'s and each scrap is value the work it. My experiences in the quiet were völlig wonderfully!! you can do it, you believe only in itself. Congratualtions!

Asker \'s Comment:: Most of the answers were really wonderful and really encourage, so that it was difficult to choose only one. I dedicate to nursing and will try everything with it in my power to do. I weiß, that it is the best for my baby and I want, that my baby is healthy. Thanx everyone, that seriously für your help vouched.

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I am a nursing mommy.

your husband is right from SAlex Sometimes. I was like you. I believed, thereß it first a little difficult could be, but that it would work out, and everything would be okay. I read thereover and took a nursing class and so on

But it never worked out for me. ICH\'m, that pumps, and was 3 1/2 months long, because never my son fähig was to be worked as a nurse. ICH\'m not certainly why. The lactation advisor, whom I hired, said thereß it is, because he/it knows something doesn\'t to do with his/its tongue, and he/it often defers instead of withdrawing.

I want that you know, that it was very emotionally painful for me. I thought, thereß my victim, in order to nurse, it, \'s something, to which I never was comfortable with it, was rejected by my baby completely. And it fühlt itself really like refusal at, if you undress, and he/it begins to cry because he/it knows you, again going, to take the trouble to work him/it as a nurse. I never thought, thereß it wouldn\'t works out. So, I want, thereß you so there knows, \'s a possibility, from which it won\'t work. And if das\'s the case, hopefully you become readier dafit is ür as I was, and knows, that we deem ourselves happily, allows to survive, i.e. breastpumps, formula and so on, to must so very available to us,

Her/its/their baby will probably drink at the breast; don\'t stress yourself. Glück.

vonvon MaPetite.... It is new and demands out much we at the beginning for it. You/they think that you stick your baby at your breast and the aufwärts\'s it. The case can really isnt f since itür many babies are complicated. Some babies were born seemingly with the sucking reflex, like my daughter der\'s-Problem ließ, you go, where sucks\' a \'weak one seemingly others leaves. No Bedürfnis, but, to give up, you must work only about it. Sie\'ll gets also much very bad information, you, if your \'enough\' baby doesn\'t win, as your Ksufficiently örper cannot produce, you therefore give formula. Das\'s-Unrecht, but the will of much nurses/Dr says it. Sie\'ll hört any saying, in order to give bottle right after birth, so that they don\'t lose any weight, that also is wrong. Es\'s completely normally für babies, that again 5-10 percent of her/its/their birthweight lost before beginning to regain. Das\'s because first few days of women produce you no milk, only colostrum, in this the für your baby suffices, but doesnt brings to increase her/it/them to it. You/they können sore/cracked-Brustwarzen gets that is really uncomfortable for the first week until one month but it passes you sorta with it it has suck you to it upward\' until the pain goes away. , To accelerate Lansinoh-Sahne, helps alot, at least it made für me. Sie\'ll gets, any say of you is nursing repulsively, or towardsügt not for baby, or this knows something so that you feel even more uncertain from itself. It can gef on youit drips ühlsmäßig if it should be the most exciting matter in your life. You/they give w to your baby part of itselflocally, so that they can grow up big and strongly. You/they müssen strong is and gets through everything of this. These are only some of the matters, thereß CAN happens, not, that they become, but es\'s nicely, to know about them in advance. I never gave him/it a second thought, only wu,ßte, that I would become quiet, and therefore as the problems came, I was blown away by them and was a little one depressed for a while. Schließlich serves through it, and got, somebody of it me, to ignore telling, was strange, that I nursed, or my baby was hungry, or which shit that can throw some with you as a new mommy and continued, until my girl was in 13mths. They it, that itself two nächsten Sunday turns, and I am so glad that I gave her/it/them such a big beginning to lives. You/they will be also with your baby. Glück.

through josi, I would not analyze itself with that out, what can go injustice, before it actually happens. There are women, who have a hard time, but it could be, thereß she/it only lands, good support of trained lactation pros gets \'t. It is a großes commitment, and it can be difficult, but makes only the best, that you can, and gets help to get the right handle. It shouldn\'t hurt, if it did right, you get so, lowermostützen you right to the beginning.

through nursesr4.... as soon as the baby drinks at the breast for the first time, he/it will remind how it is to be done. Es\'s not a großer deal. Some bemuttern\'s behält a schedule, any nurse \'upon request\'. es\'s normally on to the mother what you want to do. If you follow a schedule, your milk supply will appear, at those times at the höchsten, to be.

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from Jennylyn.... yes, it can challenge, but rewards so! DieDie challenge, really is at the beginning. Es\'s very important thereß you with it therefore about much help, to guarantee your baby, asks, snaps on retaining itself/themselves sore, bleeding nipples correctly. Also, there is große lanolin products and other products, that you protect literally from it, to get sore nipples, you invest in it. Also, after the shower if you come out, you rub your nipples a small one with your towel, this sounds strange, and, to actually rub you the nipples, can cause contractions, but if you make it for Z this, before your baby comes,äher she/it upward does. If you bring your baby brings können, to snap correctly on it, and if you often nurse, you are gotten this you hang from it, and matters should go well. My second baby and I developed throttle, that was a nightmare! I mußte of sugar come off and do some matters of course, because nothing worked otherwise, those matters, that can pass this brand very difficult nursing, are so. I pushed through it, thereWas well of ß and all. ICH\'ve worked as a nurse, all 4 of my children and the 3. and 4. was a breeze, but I had learned and had until then a großen deal experiences with it no fear of asking for help has and, to get, to nurse as the effort.

from HNB GIRL i nursed 2 months long and pumped exclusively 2 months long. I was filled with enthusiasm to nurse very much. i took classes, you read Bücher, the whole research did. i only didn\'t geniusßt it. it becomes again bem i for itself with my second childühen, but if it am I doesndie \'t-Arbeit O.K. with it.
as decided i for itself to turn off the breast, was i really unhappy with me..., but then recognized i, that it was not about me. it was about my son, and he/it improved much on the bottle.

Luck and if his/its really important one to you, you make it to working..., but if it doesn\'t remember, you still are a good mommy!

from Brandi C, It can be difficult. I was positive 100 percent, thereß I quiet becomes. In order to make a long history short, I finished pumping and fülle itself nourishing breastmilk from that then shifts to formula. I place auf\'t, it regrets, I tried, roughly, and it work für me. My baby now is 3 and completely healthy.

My two best friends nursed, they have as well as 2 young children, as also although it could be challenging, both of them nursed exclusively and don\'t have any regret.

My best advice is that if you have difficulties, you get support. You/they können itself into a friend or a relative, who nursed, changes your pediatrician or your own one Dr., many hospitals have lactation advisors a nurse with the hospital, where you have your baby, or the best means probably is La Leche-Verband. You web site are llli.org

from incognito Mep. I am correct in agreement, time helps of nursing. I nursed my daughter, now 3 almost 4, and I got only 10 days after she/it had been born. Sore boobs broken all contibuted bleeding nipples, engorgement and Müdigkeit, oh and had attatching a harsh tense plus my daughter to the breast, because he/it was a first time mother, and I only couldn\'t copes.
I had my son 10.5 , and I slept, you improve, and he/it was a sleeper, and a good provider and it still lasted approximately 2-3 months before we got it well. IchIch found, thereß I so early in the moring a shower had, as possibly, your milk supply can position for the day and, like easy it for your baby, to grab, is. Now it doesn\'t-Sache, whether it mitternächtlich is, or 5am, or 3pm has it together we.
Insist, but if it becomes too hard, that you cannot cope, or you don\'t like it, you let it and formula feed go, my daughter is a beautful of small angels, and bottle was fed. My son is also an angel and is nursed, it doesn\'t-Sache. IchIch finds only the in the same age, I then am a little n for my sonäher, that I was to my daughter, but my girl is a Vati\'s-Mädchen anyway.
There is a quantity, that can go injustice, but reminds, there are more so much right can go this. It helps to bind with your baby, the risk of the breast cancer reduces, helps, after birth of your givingärmutter, to reduce, and decreases the length of the post birth bleeding. It is the whole time free, more perfectly temp, you place auf\'t has with midnight, that wäscht, to be, upward and steralizing your boobs, you trust me in this, I cost so much loosely tab feeding becuse of the bottles my daughter, No insulated to spoil messengers, in order to keep away milk from it, no not bringing of a business keeper or a waitress, to heat up one bottle, during from to lunches. I have as well as made ways for him/it, as also as soon as you get, the nack is to be nursed it, so much more easily. Try and do it, h,ören you your midwives to, if everything fails other, you see a lactation advisor and get you, as much help as possibly. If you will love you it like it.

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Mommy to a 3yo and a 10mo.

through pocahont... un 27 weeks prego and i, to think, was in the habit of, that it would be difficult for me. Becuase i doesn\'t like any nipple stimulation. I read a quantity on it. But there is some remedys. I, that also planned to nurse. There is, nipple stations talk and so on thereover with your obgyn and continues to inform itself/themselves about it. breastmilk is so healthy. And if it takes i-Jargon, will pump i, but one from both way i wants, thereß my baby breastmilk gets. and if not then, Formelletzter way out. Glück!

through myourchi... i tried with two of mine and them, the wouldnt to it takes. not all babies will take the breast. diedie nurses with the hospital become u for you and show the other type of grips, Gl,ück and congrats helps!

through bized, my wife had a little bit of of a difficult time. As yearn as it, you take a warm shower and massage before Fütterung the breast right, everything should go well. The single difficult matter stops it and only jokes, you procure breast cushions für excessive breast milk current and puts in you into a particular BrustfütterungsbH it, and everything will work out fine.

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all excited one doesn\'t get from Trish Do and procured, it will make it only harder. It is not so easy, as of Männer it thinks, but it gewann\'t is so hard, as you think both. Come in contact with La Leche-Verband, that a gemeinnützige group of breast women, that meet and pass out information and even a friend, feeds about to, to speak of it about everything, if you want one. You/they are the best source of information on this wonderful topic from there. You/they können this does, and your baby will profit tremendously if you do.

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through mystic_e... I had a dreadful time. NachNach 3 days of the work and one Transfer to the hospital simply was I too wearily to the fight. Therefore ließ I them deep sucking my son, who can cause many problems.

I let her/it/them then given him/it of IV-Antibiotika, that was, what I didn\'t recognize, that they gave him/it also glucoses. Well then his/its Niere\'s schloß was, from which I later found, because they had given him/it also much of the wrong type of glucose.

It was not allowed me "either to nurse 18 hours long after his/its birth, because be" breathing "too fast, this is BS incidentally, but I never had heard about it before, and I had done much reading.

, To so then cure IhnIhn of the glucose, he/it had to get very high quantities from milk. Therefore mußte I him/it previously weighs and after each feed, as if the burden to be in only the particular worry nursery, in a hospital, with doctors, that informing CPS wasn about me constantly threatens, sufficiently \'t this locked it. I couldn\'t, the während it down is left, lives, und/oder baby would not snap, scrap of both (that I suspect), I so then pumped and nourishing the baby with a shot or makes hollow. No one the lactation advisor was any help, that baby brings to snap, ouchßer of a nurse, that only 4 hours long in represented.

Finally, I finished to use a nipple shield, that allowed the baby to get any milk directly from the breast. The weekday docs if turns towards theück, and that weekend docs took on, pity on me took wasn\'t against homebirth and I as him/it to go got. Für the devil of it weighed my last feed I after closing. My son got 8 oz, the an unreal quantity für a baby, who ages, is.

Disaccustoming IhnIhn of the sign was hard, and the whole time, that I had to pump after each feed for fear of the sign, that causes my milk supply. IchIch then removed him/it schließlich of the sign, that I had engorgement heavy, that caused the baby, while to clamp it down, lives. Within 24 hours, my nipples will almost jump, and I was in pain. EsEs took the Zurückgehen two days into a row to the lactation advisor, to repair the problem. Then, we were good.

Until 8 weeks, as he/it had you reflux so badly, could see the bile in his/its spit upward. GlücklicherweiseGlücklicherweise discovered this lives been viewed "normally" in North America I, that reflux often is caused by the rare. I began, him/it every hour während the day\'s, to feed, whether he/it was hungry, or not. , ThereThis healed ß and watching, as he/it was carried.

NOT EVEN in all of it, it did, I ever think of resigning, because I knew, all problems were temporary and repairable. If you know in your heart, that all problems vorläufig and repairable is, no matter you will replace what is thrown with you. Although leaving never does of a good support network sore!

Hopefully you will have a normal birth, the baby will be put on you, and care will be fine. You become hopefully in lives with your baby and offers häufig the breast without the pressure, that some mommies have there, at where the nurses to see demand, that the baby lives, and 5 minutes after a feed every single room time, I, heraufführen\'ve heard this of other mommies, yes most of the time of works completely nurses, but if you need, help gets help.

Start to now go to La Leche-Verband meetings so that you have people to call if you have problems.
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If the baby rejects to snap on it,
both of my babies assumed my breast completely after birth

this doesn\'t happen to all women, and will explain i why... routine obstetric interventions often sabotages women and or makes her/its/their nursing relatonship difficult

develop freely on the benefits of working and delivering of drug, IV frees with support of your keepers in order to help work for you on your own free will..... this decreases your need of c-Teil, interventions in you and the baby, that lead continuim-Erfolg to nursing to a birth, dramatic

a splendid many decrease of problems and complications, that originate in it, to nurse stalk of epidurals, c-Teile, causations, IVs...... connects you with bad advice to doctors, nurses and the mother\'s lack of education this and persistence and you, you has can lead this fast to nursing for a dreadful beginning to formula feeding

, not to say, there is not lot of the mommies with c-Teilen, that doesn\'t nurse,..... it makes of only heavy matters of biological points of view..... like the action of full natural work and vaginally-Lieferung active lactation and the newborn to an aware natural state, that prepares him/it or she/it for care, at

so please make your research for it...... internet, books, support group...... speech to your doctor or your midwife over your work and birth desires itself and your wishes to work, and that of course as possibly silence

luck wishes you i...... your education is weapon in success!

through kikers, It can be challenging. Bemühen you itself, to then become more tenaciously in the shower on your breast through cleaning with a ruff-Schwamm. The tenderness was the härteste part for me, but as soon as I and my baby, who were caught on it, were astonishing.

through mechelle... leaves you itself time, that is nursing, a personal decision. I nursed two weeks long my oldest and groomed twins, after they had been born. Es\'s, in order to immediately work more heavily as a nurse in two, as it is to be worked one as a nurse. Some babies, that her/its/their fingers suction, becomes. Care is the best matter, that you für your baby could do, and even if you land, \'t that milk first is the best does the whole time of a nurse.
Tell hubby, some babies snap on it of course, and some don\'t do.
From what is it your fearful one? How are you, the baby has gonna? Natürlich or c-Teil? Or will be ya, do you have an epidural?
I had everything mine without the help of the drugs of course. I persönlich didn\'t wants the helper of the drugs. You/they asked, and I rejected. The reason is, that I asked, because some babies a little trit is äge if you have the drugs. Be wise only in that, what you do. Glück to you and your hubby.

through appleman-Brust feeding is for healthy babies. Formulas are für cows.

from Evin Für, it is some women so easily as your husband thinks it,... she/it normally also is the one, that thought ahead and took a bf\'ing-Klasse and visited a La Leche-Verband meeting, * before * the baby arrived.

I was no one of those women.

I had a really hard time at the beginning, I had broken nipples, throttle, that my baby had reflux, myself, across-active let had down, nothing seemed to go on my manner.

But I did it.

Even if it is difficult, the problems are not insurmountable. There is a Lösung almost for every nursing problem, particularly, if you have a good support network.

Some of the best matters, that you can do, in order to guarantee, that an easy nursing relationship is in 1. Let baby drinks within the first hour or two of birth, 2, at the breast. See pers as a nurseönlich works, before baby arrives and requires many questions to work mothers and 3 as a nurse. Have the number of an IBCLC (international Ausschu)ß certified lactation advisors, or your La Leche League-Leiter\'s numbers on hand.

Congratulations to your pregnancy!

from NewMomma, I pleased to really nurse me on it that it explored considerably; even all, KL read "the womanly Art of nursing, had." It was I completely consciously, how difficult it could be, because some women however still had rose colored glasses, that told me, that it would be easy for me and my child. My son had other Pläne. He/it rejected to snap, so that we one erg with formula from dayänzen had to. Each feed would go something like it...

IchIch would turn into the breast him/it, he/it would take the trouble to suck, places, you are not capable for it, I would rearrange him/it and so on around, he/it would start to scream, I would remain difficult to set up the right way for him/it, he/it would remain difficult to eat or would push away me until we cried, and miserable. 20-30 minutes normally lasted this, if gives him/it ich\'d f to my husbandür one bottle away, and I would go myself to the pump. As I was done, it was, you almost time, about the whole Proze, To begin ß again. Oh, throw in a schönen case of the throttle, that your nipples cut themselves like somebody in disks with a razor blade, feels, and the whole process was one for the most miserable of my life. Both my son as well as I were emphasized totally from and I schwöre, that I invested most of the day in the wine.

I went to three or four lactation advisors, a hospital pump rented, all doo-Vatis for nursing had, tried nipple signs, you torture appliances!, and so on before throwing schließlich of the gun into the grain with almost two weeks. Then, I decided only one day to try it again,... I erwähnte, how much I had pleased on breasfeeding myself, before he/it was born? :)

I don\'t know, what we made different, I don\'t know what happened, everything of an abrupt one, for which he/it correctly only made it. Natmy milk supply had eased ürlich beside this point, and it never got to it upward, where it would endure him/it completely, therefore I always supplemented with formula, but he/it became quite proficient in nursing and it became as rewarding an experience as I had hoped.

Therefore, if I was you, I would plan, as it, as you had hoped, nursed, only you are conscious that maybe it is no smooth trip. If it a gewährleistete difficult trip silence is that it will be a wonderful experience as soon as you get through the initial difficulty. I würde also your hubby gets, as much literature as, to read possible, so that he/it also understands, that it could not be the easy plan, that it it, that introduces itself. I hdone ätte it without the support of my husband never.

Congratulations and luck.

from Gussie, I believe that then, you should stop to read! ICH\'ve nurses eleven months long. It didn\'t does after the first two weeks and ouchßer some congested managements sore, I didn\'t have any broken nipples no problems, no mastitis. No one of it. Sometimes, people brought out only the worst-case plan with it Sie\'wieder ready, but it finishes to startle you instead. Hören you on, to read, I propose. You/they könnten ever from the biggest relationship, not to mention the health benefits, is scared.

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nursing of mom to a girl old eleven months. strongly going. no sign of holding still is to be probably gone to work two years long as there as a nurse. I place k auf\'tümmert itself. I love it!!! she/it, that are won, \'t is a baby eternally, therefore I tend the time if I have property her/its/their end. Dont\' is scared by this wonderful duration between mother and child away.

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