Nursing arguments with Babygruppe: (?

Today with a fall at Babygruppe had the most dreadful conversation with 3 mommies I. I succeeded in holding silence open, but one of these mommies became very bös. Was one none become others in this situaton? ....

My 18 moth old baby asked for it to be nursed with a baby group, and of course I began to work her/it/them as a nurse. A mother asked, with whom I never had spoken previously, why I still nursed her/it/them, and if turns Iürde, I noticed with a smile that I probably would become finis in 10 minutes. She/it laughed and said yes..., but if you aufhören becomes to feed\' her/it/them?

I went feel both for her to say further, that I would live, until us that the time is right to hold. At this point, she/it turned up her/its/their face and started, beside her with the women over nursing, to speak. I believed, thereß this very impolite was, but I didn\'t say anything.
All three Mütter-Flaschen nourished, I felt her/its/their babies, doesn\'t know i for which reasons, not to ask my right for him/it, you said some tremendously wrong matters, like breast milk, much kindliness doesn\'t contain as a baby becomes older, and sometimes, can be breastmilk for baby bad, and formula is not much difference at all from breast milk. She/it also said as soon as baby has, muß teeth thats natures way, to say you, holds.
I at this point said that that was disloyal that always mated fully breast milk from kindliness was, that something per the baby\'s age. And my baby had 14 ZSähne, and care was fine. I fühlte, that I had to say something at this point. My I, thereWas put ß I and nursed there, I had to fight for me... right??

She/it then jumped along my throat, that says, that it was mommies like I badly, whom whoever did bottle, that mothers nourished. Thereß this comment mommies guilty about it, not to nourish her/its/their babies, did. Whaaaat!! you asked all questions very curiously plus being, I told her/it/them only the truth!

At this point, I told her/it/them that to boast the facts, painfully or the stimulation even to some mothers, who didn\'t nurse her/its/their child for what ever concludes, can be, but the continued refusal of the risks from the not silence, that vaule of the breast milk and the importance of the care to spare \'a womens-Gefühlen\', is not right. Declaring not the truth, because wanting the no women to it brings, itself guiltily too fühlen simply police officer end is.
Everything mothers and mothers in order to be, the truth should be said, so that they are capable to make an educated one, informed and personal election on like to nourished her/its/their child from pressure as well.

I went to then say further that no women should look guiltily for failing to breast feed. You/they could because of the lack of lowermostützung itself during the early days and more importanly vital information on the newest stand angry or sad feels.

She/it said that mommies, who tackled feeding, and settling dreadful is, AND that \'this\' wants to make some mommies only dont... hummmm

I, to which something then is told at the lines of the \'women, didn\'t can her/it/them to choose the right, as they use her/its/their bodies, and should not be forced to nurse baby, BUT this doesn\'t mean this proof over the risks of not BF, should be marked. I at this point got up and went.

Am I proud and passionaite over my nursing experience in my baby and with this group, it was, had to cover more similarly i \'upward and not disscus my feelings of the truth incase I offened another mommy\'. each other was in this situation in any aspect to rear baby?
I had to come here and had to ask dont as me has somebody, wise \'friend\', to ask,: (

from Emzzzz

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I would not have justified myself, if I was you, however, you made good!

I chose personally, feed, to fill all my 4 children, you the thought of nursing so not only, and is glad healthy from my children of all and doesn\'t lighten children with any major worries / illnesses. But other mommies, whom I know, wählten, to nurse. I felt pressure myself from Gesundheitsbehörde accelerates in order to nurse but I had made my decision, and I won\'t let her/it/them bring me to feeling badly over it!!

I never would see my nose with somebody downward, that breast fed her/its/their child, as it thier-Körper and her/its/their child and we are, all our children come up in that, what we think, the best way is possible. Which difference it makes whether your child is 3 months, or over 12m as yearn you itself as she/it, is glad and healthy, and you are comfortable doing, it then continues, it is not as if you feed to them, that they get her/its/their nutrients and other scrap of meal and other beverages, only breastmilk.

I am glad for the weaker didnt-Sturz you too much, and you told Ihren peaces and only waked away, these women should feel ashamed by itself!

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through Ivy, twin boys have! I place wei auf\'tß of it, but my mommy often comments on not leaving me quiet.

It, that is begun with "you, will need bottles and formula on hand just in case" as I then was pregnant that it "your going to begin, sore, to become, was, your cousins of all did and had to resign during the first month, now can change "you to bottles with six months, your Aunt Lil did". I believe, thereß she/it after 6 months to kinda-Schnipser will start. I told her/it/them that I plan, one year, to go, if I went past, thereß I lands, \'t knows which she/it will do. I already can extremelyählen, that the yearly matter really disturbs her/it/them.

SieSie says, that she/it supports nursing, but she/it also always does comments about it and so on not to do it, that could not do it, doing she/it, that was mentioned, as somebody else from it stopped that it makes my daddy uncomfortable, although I agree the whole time, that I feed, with a blanket, if he/it is in the room.

And I can tell that she/it feels bad because she/it didn\'t nurse, and because I don\'t do what she/it did. But to a degree, she/it is this over all with her/its/their grandchildren similar. She/it is a bißchen fall, that I land, \'t bathes everyday or sedate oil for them on her/its/their heads to it, but if you don\'t bathe daily her/it/them, that they don\'t get any cradle cap, and you don\'t have any sedate oil on her/its/their heads. lol.

Fortunately, my friends nurse, helps a quantity with it, and my MIL nursed. Only my mommy really is the become one from it gestört one, and my daddy is used for sex only think of the breasts, therefore it makes him/it uncomfortable to think of her/it/them as a baby food source.

from Meems, I would have asked her/it/them why all cans mention formula expressly that nursing is the best. Therefore, the formula companies obviously are the one, that has most, to be caught up, reports over the benefits of the breast feeding, to dispute,; if even they land, it makes \'t, and goes then maybe, she/it should consider for her to mention so far, that breast is the best, proper source of information.

And yes, she/it first was incredibly impolite by bothering you, and then through the effort on purpose, you, to make feeling bad.

from WeooBean.... this is that ridiculously, what she/it said about the Zähne-Sache. Almost think in the old days behind, as gave it no formula. Ließen she/it only her/its/their babies starves? Jeeze.

Anyways, I probably would have interjected it because people like this listen normally accustomed to that, what you must say.

from Shorty no experience like this however she/it certainly is missing eduaction you in breast milk stanza formula.

Formula is man annoyed nutrients. and she/it r, of the natures, N, copiesährstoffe however she/it still has only a small part of breastmilk-Nährstoffen in formula.

breastmilk trades needs with babies, nutritiously everything needs. and it has more Nährstoffe as formula.

a right had u to be offended. and i believes, thereß u the situation very healthy handled.

through Mrs. D Jakes mommy 3/11/10 is I a solid creditor, that everyone should do this, with which they are comfortable, and her/its/their own business should concern all other. If somebody wants to nurse, they should. If somebody too bottle/formula-Futter wants, they should. I bottle/formula ernährt my son and never would preach each other over her/its/their decisions, and would become also nobody preaching estimates over mine to me. That woman with your group should her/its/their own business gekümmert has.

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from Emma I is on this, that pushed a total of ff and bf-Debatte. I find this woman, who lands, \'t breast feed says this woman, that there all high and huge oneover presents. Well, I never did, I done that exactly, what I thought, was f in my eyesür my baby better.

I sometimes think woman, who feels ff guiltily for it to take the trouble not even to breast feed, well this is not problem for ours there. We shouldn\'t is done, itself badly too fühlen, because they were not capable for breast feed or not to in the first place wanted, that is her/its/their election. I place auf\'t judged people für formula, that her/its/their baby nourishes, so that, why we should be judged for breast feeding.

Unfortunately, teeth were of Naturen-Weg in my case for me to be too bulky to give up,... or was it the repeated Beißen of the nipples! My son only couldn\'t helps itself, small monkey!

Some people are simply purely ignorant. I persönlich wouldn\'t wastes my time on her/it/them, because, if I did, they would regret to open her/its/their mouth in the first place.

from Mindy82, I believe that you are completely finely into being nursed your child. I hätte my daughter nourishes, until she/it was old besides my body one year, you cut off the milk. Breast milk is the purpose of formula of the es\'s much more easily definitely the best für the baby, in order to digest, and it, has all nutrients in it, that this formula has. I have a nephew, who almost died because of the complications, he/it became with his/its Gedärme on the outside born, and the single milk, that he/it could handle, was breast milk, and that was the single matter, that his/its doctors and his/its nurses wanted him/it, to be had. His/its mommy, my sister, had difficulties of producing of milk so that I pumped my own milk and it gave her/it/them, and I fühle me personal that if he/it had this milk hadn\'t, he/it is allowed to very well, died. Formula was f to difficultür him/it, to digest, and he/it, puked for him/it upward. Breast milk is like flüssiges gold. ICH\'m, that not even jokes. After this whole experience, I have such a respect für women, that nurse and know, as valuable breast milk is real.
People, that don\'t choose to breast feed or don\'t can, breast feed never should be badly on those of us, that whoever do breast feed. Es\'s our own election and she/it should her/its/their own business kümmern.

from KC, I still am BF old daughter my 16 months, and we also will let her/it/them decided gonna if she/it wants to hold. ICH\'ve actually had flack f moreür the fact, that I her/its/their behind gazes in the car keeps, this is proved to be the safe St way for a baby/toddler to travel), as we still nurse for the fact.

I believe that she/it only took the trouble to justify her/its/their reasons for not BF what maybe she/it always are how she/it must feel any type of blame for it. Don\'t-Mietfrist, that of St those types of people youören.

through amost, I believe that you did and said the right matter. I, that am nursed as it, yearn as me, k,önnte and would have nourished, saves longer than my 9-10 months, if my baby leaves itself hadn\'t. I think there, seems, so much responsibility for nursing or him/it not silence. I muß admit that I feel a little complacent, that I nursed, and proud of me and the whole silence, and that comes to nicht-breastfeeders subconsciously across maybe, or not so subconscious, the nicht-breastfeeders seems, that I know, over her/its/their decision, to be quite defensive. In some Fthey really struggled ällen and have nurse, but couldn, gewollt\'t. if I don\'t think, there is each point in anybody of itself over which possibility upward, that they choose to do, beats. If you still nursed with old 2 or 3, I believe, thereß I the person, who was so impolite for you, would agree but you do the right matter for the moment and es\'s a very personal decision, that is niemands business. I believe, thereß I her/it/them this would have told.

from MoMx5, you impress, there is ppl everywhere stupid eh?! sacred shit, you did good for attitude for itself upward!

all 5 of my babies fed i-Formel... i NEVER would attack a mother, who has the time and the patience, to nurse,... for as yearn you itself as she/it, thinks, is the best.....

there is ppl ingnorant, the linings fill, and somebody, that also nurses,... we jargon gets from it away..., but what we can do, be ready for OUR child for that, what we, attitude, believe, the best!

Would I have had difficulties of remaining in this situation quietly.... you shoulda said..., why do you want some?

Be successful with all...

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through mummy of 4! I believe, thereß she/it extremely impolite was, and it is she/it, that looks guiltily for it, in all the fairness not to nurse her/its/their baby, probably. Don\'t läßt she/it you disturbs, she/it is no value it.

from Ton-Julia-B gaahh thats that is annoyed! Those mommies should more respect für you had! Well für you for standing on for itself and everything from us mothers BF!

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Monday, 18 July 2011