Does each other let a similar matter passed, while nursing? What did you do?

My 11 months still nurses. He/it really loves to work as a nurse and I don\'t plan, as soon it him/it entw anytimeöhnt has. Anyways während he/it as a nurse works, he/it may attach importance you to it to" the breast, from which not he/it from as a nurse works, it doesn\'t disturb me, but I nursed him/it and a wife came up to me and said "my gosh his/its a matter, to work as a nurse in public, but it is simply ill-mannered, him/it, to let caressed you like it!"
I not even recognized, that his/its hand was on my breast, but it was on my shirt, so that he/it" really didn\'t caress "me, above, he/it leaned only his/its hand on my breast, and however, he/it moved his/its hand of doing only of small fists madly a small one nothing. I didn\'t have any skin exhibition, I carried a nursing tank top and a sweater, that nothing showed, so wlocal. I understand, thereß it uncomfortable can be, if works ppl as a nurse in public, but there was jargon no be in the habit of room and me, gets along you and sits in a bathroom stall in order to work as a nurse. I saß on a small bank beautifully, pounced back, and I didn\'t make anything in order to draw attention. I only dont weiß, whether I should take the trouble to teach him/it to keep his/its hands to his/its side, if care or if women were only a jerk in such a way. IchIch doesn\'t want to make others uncomfortable, but at the same time I dont believes, thereß my son or I all unsuitable one did. He/it won\'t work as a nurse under a blanket, he/it flips out out and draws a scene, if I me bemühe and him/it with a blanket, therefore its few kindness, that reaches for it, covers puts him/it simply discreetly on it and relaxes. I muß only know, if any other breast, that mommies nourish, a situation like it met, and as they handled it. I fühlte me so uncomfortable!

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I believe, that she/it stared at me in order to calculate this, which made i, and as she/it recognized, I was care, and then, she/it approached me. It was so merkwürdig. It never is in the 11 months of nursing for me towards previouslyähert become. I become so surprise that she/it approached me like it.

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You/they must understand that some people equate feeding with the breast with sexuality. We know, thereß it no relationship gives, but this woman has sex a twisted idea of that, what is normal infant behavior and this, which are. What you did, and that is normal, what your baby did. It is für a nursling normally, to have one or both, gives on or near a breast. It is normally, a 9 month alto, a 13 month alto, to still work as a nurse, a 18 month alto, and beyond.

Incidents like it frequently pass women, who nurse in public. Frankly, sometimes sie\'wieder much worse. it is because of ignorance and mißverständnisses. If this woman or each other, didn, \'t like what she/it saw, she/it should see in another direction. And it simply simply unhöflich, n another person of bemerken\'s-Verhalten. lowermost line: the woman was a jerk.

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Thanks for all answers. I fühlte, that the women looked for only one reason to jump for it with me to work as a nurse in public, although nothing showed at all. It is very sad, thereß she/it a young child old on 11 months thinks, is capable for caressing his/its mother in a sexual way. , Thereß really disturbs me!

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by two, boys are a joy! whoever provides, if he/it wäre, caressing" "of you. Br is for herüste and a comfort matter of him/it, nothing sexual. My first son always had my other breast in hand, w,ährend he/it as a nurse worked, until he/it disaccustomed with almost 2 1/2. my secdon-Sohn now is almost 8 weeks old and hält already on the breast:,

through * this woman was only a jerk. Seriously, like somebody intently you looks at müßte, in order to see, your baby his/its hand with what does?

Prestige to you for it, to work as a nurse in public! Uphold the good work!

through crystal, it is a normal matter, but if you feel uncomfortable, that you can place only your thumb into the Babys-Hand, because he/it tries only on some handle,

from Djr, the woman is a jerk. There is not anything wrong with nursing with 11 months. And part of the nursing experience für children not only nourishes for itself. Es\'s that cuddles with mommy and certainly itself fühlt. Therefore, if he/it you berühren wants or you caresses, nothing wrong also there. The single time, that I worry, is würde, if he/it actually packs your shirt and exposing of you further. My daughter is the same way. My mother-in-law würde me always sorrow over it, to work as a nurse in public, gives. You/they würde itself, to bring me, troubles, to a germy stinky bathroom stall, to go, or she/it would take the trouble to cover me with a blanket. The würde my daughter, to become excited, induces and with my mother after law, that puts in the blanket all 5 seconds, so only drew more attention. Schließlich had to ask her/it/them I to push with the head out and to leave me alone. If probably she/it itself with it fühlte, then, she/it could go. Only ignore the gazes. In most states, it actually is a nursing woman illegally too harrass. Check your state laws.

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from Shera O oh gawd something for a total Stückchen-ch..... seriously..... she/it has, view of that, what is nursing, obviously has bring one in disorder... anyways.

My nurslings always did this... and continued, "" the boobs, to caress well, after they had been disaccustomed,..... my most last weanling, very recently, as in this last week, picked up to push her/its/their hand in my shirt or opening on my robe for any boob treatment. You/they lächelt really big and looks at me with the most affectionate gaze. Es\'s dear part funny part, this, annoyed is.

And it never has been brought fortunatly closer to me with all negative comments about public care, but I am ready, thinks to deliver third, so that I have much opportunity to see, if it passes this time around.

through travelgi... I cannot believe, that lady was so impolite for you,..., to disturb about you, you expel your feeding for itself your baby! I formula feed, and if I sit other on a bank nowhere, and ernährt my baby. Fährt me madly although, if people and ooh and aah comes up, and wants to see... about, good day.... feeding, that goes on. There is not any Bedürfnis, to hush up your baby, except if he/it is cold. My baby is 8mos, and always moves her/its/their hand on my shirt or around the bottle, if she/it itself ernährt. Only ingore unhöfliche and ignorant people, she/it, again not value it!

from Lisa, I didn\'t still pass this situation had to myself, but you let yourself nourish a right to breast somewhere, you need. There are many people uncomfortable with it and thinks it incorrectly, but only ignores her/it/them. How für your Sohnesgut on the breast he/it isn\'t-Pflege, my daughter also does this. I assume, thereß it only to the babies comforts. Become make this like a baby to it you caress you. Don\'t worries about which other people, you think, and continues you, your baby in , To nourish public.

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I believe that it is very disrespectful from women to work as a nurse in public. Many people become gekr from itänkt and you either should go privately somewhere to work as a nurse or should live, your baby pumped breast milk or formula in one bottle while you are out, and over. If you wählen, to work as a nurse in public places, you should be ready for it and people expect to do comments.