Do mommies expect much too much of her/its/their babies?

I looked at this 80 picture "Baby Boom" with Diane Keaton recently. There is a scene where she/it robs her/its/their adopted baby daughter in order to play in the sandbox to the playground. You/they hört mothers, who talk on a bank, by chance, as they comfort "perfect resume a woman, whose toddler was rejected private school only despite her by one." If Diane Keaton mentions, her/its/their daughter didn\'t take any baby yoga, or mommy and I gymnasium class, or began ballet, or exposed to a foreign language, the mothers look at each other in horror and opinion "oh, the other babies are waaay before her/its/their..."

It brought me to the laughter, because I see examples of mommies, who feel so much pressure, every day in order to lift "superbabies", whether they believe honestly, nursing will bring her/its/their baby to it, a superior IQ, or buying of baby Einstein dvds or the gamble for her/its/their 4 months of language tapes old, to have.

Does everything a small out of control get? Us are put on pressure to consume because our children won\'t be wir\'wieder afraid of the curve? Do many mommies have the importance, babies, to only leave babies, from the eyes lost, are you?

I don\'t judge here, I sincerely am curious.

from Joanie

Best answer chosen by Asker

I agree completely with you, and it is a shame because you don\'t see the daddies out flipping out over this whole type of matter, only the mommies. More pressure on mommies, from mommies. My 7 are the eldest, and you should see the look, that I get, if I me, that am won, people tells, \'t placed him/it in more than two activities in every given week, and I won\'t do any activity, that is more than one day per week. Our Nachbar\'s-Kind is the same age as mine, and the poor small type is already in volle-Kontakt-Football, 5 days per week. It it, that also makes very bad in the school, and has questions over the bus, is therefore driven now in order to train every day.

There is also no proof of this the learning of early means you will learn better. ICHMbeweis of him/it, me. In kindergarten (let) \'s says only before more than 30 less as 40 years, however, I was program, that taught kindergarteners to read, in an attempt. You/they pursued us with every degree through primary school, and each Lekt,ürenvorteil went that we had completely through third degree. So very für your child\'s pushing, in order to read.

Too much parental entanglement is a bad matter. Children place auf\'t learns, unabhängig, to play, you make her/its/their own decisions, you are really creative, or learn you to self, you have guests.

Could I continue and on and on.... they see can that I feel very strongly over it? I bemühe me, not to judge others on it, because there are so many social pressures in order to push your children. But people müssen it easily takes! VieleViele people würden over the film, at which you looked and don\'t recognize, laughs that they are resembling in the film they as the people.

Asker \'s Rating:

Asker \'s Comment:

big answer. thank you schön!

Save to! ! RSS

Other Answers (8)

I know about tiny Beeny, what you my. I look many mommies at Y!A, asks of the questions of milestones, itself only too rühmen, that her/its/their child met one, "early." I buy baby Einstein no Dvd\'s, I let my children watch television, and I turn her/its/their bi-lingualen toys to "Englisch Only" so that I can understand her/it/them. And my children still are intelligent and perfect all important this TO ME, that am, is.

of Linda T, I don\'t see anything wrong with it, your child a wealth, to stop at learning.

I have a problem if the child doesn\'t have any time to be a child.

In command of there, to be an average, must be any above mentioned there and below the average. Während nobody wants to think, her/its/their child is average below, the fact is, some are.

vonvon abril-m is deepened some mommies into the milestone rat race. I say, thereß each baby different is and develops to her/its/their own installment. You/they also babies are, they are only this age in her/its/their life once.

from Christian... I believes, that some mommies don\'t see the importance in childhood. The babies leave be babies. Wir\'ll teaches her/it/them spät in lives Spanish; becoming she/it learns to dance if they learn to dance,... leaves you develop her/it/them only alone.

through lillilou, I have competitive mommy friends, but they were competitive over weight how much they pay before the baby to get her/its/their haircut and so on, way, and now translates this to her/its/their childs-Leistungen.

Another interesting matter, Newsweek had back an article a while on it, as nobody wants to think, her/its/their child is simply average, they want her/it/them to be talented, or a child star, or is fast to beat on a disorder.

But I worry about competing educationally with other countries that therefore Id rather gives a love to my child learn, and curiousity and an imagination, against simple memorization in an early age.

you know about KP19633 that I agree. My son is 3, almost 4, and is really clever. I think, thereß he/it 30 can add up, and he/it deprives his/its ABC\'s I doesn\'t sit there and places him/it under pressure in order to learn this. He/it only then learned sitting down from us and the gamble together a lot of Barney. But I fühle, that his/its speech then is other children a little slow one. He/it never has been in a daycare, and I fühle, that children learn from other children. Therefore if people speak my son hören, maybe some doesn\'t understand some of that, what he/it says, but he/it is clever. I fühle, that children must be children. You/they müssen fun has the gamble and the being itself. I fühle me, that this society is really dirtied on it, old a 3 year, to expect, should be as it, you hurt as a 5. Schüler. It is simply verrückt.

hard through pumpkin\'s DBAB being, to say. I think his/its heavy one, to, where the border between it to draw to be a parent influencing good one on top of the other to an overbearing parent, is, says, bemüht itself, to put too much on a young child.
I think to read his/its big one for parents, and teach and expose young babies to a wide variety of the matters. I believe his/its probably expectant too much from them, if you itself enttit finds äuscht if they land, \'t reaches these milestones or the performances on a date.
I am a parent, that reads to her/its/their son and plays several games, says him/it the letters and the alphabets on a daily basis, but I make this for interaction and play time. I then don\'t expect more ready from him/it to give him/it he/it is.

through Noah and Ava\'s mommy, whom I think Mütter-Mangel what is the best for her/its/their baby so naturally, they will take the trouble and them excell in a young age helps. Is so schädlich? No.

I go and so on through colors, numbers, with my son, and he/it is only 9 months old. I place auf\'t believes, thereWill wake up of ß he/it tomorrow and will start to recite her/it/them to me back, but I feel the former, that I begin the better with him/it. Es\'s necessarily not thereß I wants, that he/it is before the curve, I only want him/it, that is empires, full potential.