Are women REALLY not capable to nurse and change to formula, or do they give up?

i nursed my two children, didn\'t have any problems, there never was a \'O.K., healthy i hopes works\' or \'lets in such a way sees only that, what happens",........ and some of my headstrong friends worked all her/its/their children as a nurse, but my other friends simply are you "oh my milk never entered, or i didnt has enough milk", but they ALL (that saw i personally) were not both very roughly difficult, or they believed that was "broken thier-Dussel", and couldnt nurses, but it seems similar that gives ALL the OTHER thier-Baby formula. Our boobs are done to produce milk, and yes, if you aufsetzen,läßt \'t the baby alot after birth the first hours/days suckles, problems will have u, but make the KNOW of mommy not everything of it, or does mommy do only not, want you secretly really quiet, or is there any EPIDEMIC of boobs, that are broken? LOL??????? I offends NIEMANDEN, the formula uses, I even muß because of medications, that don\'t allow me to continue nursing, my 10 months after formula old shifts, and some people cannot nurse medically, but this, which on in america goes?
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my sisster after law, worked 50 hours per week, she/it was the single source of income for her/its/their family, and she/it pumped, used formula and nursed as she/it was at home, the wasnt alot, but as she/it at home was, baby was on her/its/their boob. She/it was a nurse and was erschöpft, but still did it. I thought, this was astonishing

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Now, my milk didn\'t enter. I didn\'t has enough milk. My son didn\'t want to work as a nurse. He/it cried and demanded formula........
I pumped and pumped and pumped. My husband würde me cries looks at, if 3 drops came out literally. He/it würde removes the pump and it to the wall throws shut. I took pills. 19 per day, to be, exactly, and I massaged and took warm showers. I bemühte me, to relax,...
More and more, I started slowly to pump, and I got formula in only 3 1/2 months of very hard work. Now quiet I, and my baby loves it. He/it rejects everything, which even one bottle resemble. , so no sippy makes hollow, simply reguläre cups,
I worked very roughly, and it was value it. I still have a low supply, but I try my best.
I have friends and relatives, who said, that they had milk sufficiently not so that they gave up after 2 weeks, or 1 months and I am glad that I didn\'t give up,

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I had also a complicated pregnancy and very difficult birth. My milk entered after 7 days, he/it had recucitated. he/it didn\'t know how snapping on it is, and as he/it schließlich learned, I had masititis and jumped and ventilating of nipples. I dealt with PPD and pumped every hour. Everyone, that I met, asked me to give him/it formula and thereß it had, "nutirents that breast milk actually doesn\'t populate looked down on me for nursing.
I will admit that nothing, which I enjoy, is I breastfeedig it sometimes fears. But after 12 months and the Zählen and I would not take back any individual day. 40 percent 2 voices saves to it! ! RSS

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from Evergree... it gives much bad education and misinformation from there. Many Doctors, the silence, become and becomes know only aufgesetzt\'t, as it works. If ago she/it these bad information on womengives, that of course, you trust them, matters go injustice inevitably.

Statistics say that actually only 2 percent of women * doesn\'t can you * nurses you physically. But the number of women, that her/its/their nursing relationship of bad information zerstören left, is very much, much higher.

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from Mary_Ann... I knows somebody personally, that gave up, because she/it didn\'t want to occupy herself with the anger of doing and visiting of appts at the lactation advisor. She/it only gave up.
I think, that many people don\'t get good help sufficiently, so they believe, that they don\'t do enough, or it does too much sore, or cannot snap, or any other number of matters. But with correct help, it is likely, thereß she/it capable, to be successful, would be.

from Salimah Kein not everyone is trained on breasting, you have also doctors, who get shit advice. And I think some people comes in order to use formula only with excuses, that defend her/its/their election. But America is a free country, so that you your baby ernheads can as you chose.

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through coma, you turn gray, I know that it is possible not to be capable to nurse because of the anomalies in the milk managements, and so on, but I believe that those, that took the trouble for a while and gave upward, any good support didn\'t have.

Maybe they didn\'t know, it how much consecration took, never, a good handle got and so on

through a chick yes, I think, there are women, that don\'t take the trouble or don\'t understand her/its/their own bodies/got any bad information, but it is the best to let it go; they are the one taking care of her/its/their children, not we.

through asrai, It is a case through Fallbasis. Es\'s not something, on which I want to generalize.

from Beth Some, people give up, because never really she/it to in the first place wanted, but more frequently, it is bad information or advice. You/they said, you make not everything of it for the KNOW of mommy", now, no, many of them don\'t do. Many women become from formula Fütterung friends/family members/grandparents/etc surrounds. whoever give baby worry advice, that is certain to formula. If itself the baby ern every hourheads wants, they think aren, \'t for them, that make enough milk and counters to formula, if in the reality, that is simply normal for some babies. Anytime, the baby is fussy or has every others issue, these well-meaning, though ignorant friends and the relative of this are too bulky slumber of handicapping of new mommy to give only one bottle to the baby, that natürlich even more problems caused. Childrendoctors often push supplements early if she/it needed aren\'t and led to more cases of low milk production, nipple confusion and other questions.

It is the number of women, who actually are physically incapable, to nurse very low, but it gives one quantity to more than only laziness, that goes on. If company as a whole one (Doctors, friend, would be family members and so on supporting and informed of nursing, more women would be to be made capable, so successful.

through Tamara k? Alex\'s cider, to make a concious-Entscheidung used for the formula brand, with it. I nursed f happilyür two years and counts, my son, but there are times as I nurse so ACROSS that I am extremely glad, that my daughter will take one bottle of formula!
We started her/it/them with formula, because she/it was an extremely FUSSY and high Bedürfnisse-Neugeborene, my MIL was, for which she/it needs for a few hours, and formula feeding the single way, that I could get enough sleep, to remain mentally healthy and not to omit it at my son.

Now, she/it calms down the reasons, that we, that she/it only should guarantee, still supplement, that still she/it one bottle and me in the evenings, where I can take a bath or even one can spend on a time in my son without itself/themselves about her/it/them to give one to hour or according to peaces provides takes.

an answer or reason not only are through Nurse Ashlina There, it is a mixture of all.

Some women take the trouble to breast feed, but for which bottom her/its/their milk doesn\'t enter, or the baby gets sufficiently not. Yes, they could difficult and pumping and taking of medication weeks long or months remain, but this can be much burden. Many Mütter places only auf\'t the time or the energy have to nourish every two hours her/its/their newborn and to pump every two hours also. Someday the milk doesn\'t comes in at all, no matter this, which is done.

Other women cannot nurse for medical reasons. Maybe they have Brustkerbs and took care of radiation treatments had. Maybe they had a mastectomy or other surgical intervention. You/they könnten a medication, (thyroid gland), takes pain medication, antibiotics and so on this cross in the breastmilk, must. You/they könnten an infection like HIV has, that it them to nurse not allowed.

Mothers the multiple, to nurse a more difficult time maybe, has. This mdelivering üssend two children with breastmilk is not easy, and it is a gigantic time commitment. Three or more Säuglinge is, even more difficult so many mommies choose to supplement with formula.

Formula could the lifestyle of present-day employed, working mommy better fits. Not all Mütter gets, a 12 week of the motherhood permission and not all mothers, jobs, that allow it them, have every few hours to pump milk. These mommies müssen long hours long every day away from her/its/their children is. Formula allows it the baby, every day the same way too füttern.

Some women simply don\'t like the idea of nursing. I read a study there, that showed,ß itself many teenager mothers and mothers, who had been abused sexually, with nursing probably felt. Maybe you/they are not fähig, that to nurse effectively and formula a better possibility is.

There are many reasons why a woman could choose to use formula. All this Gründe is valid, like nursing really an individual decision is. 20 percent 1 voices

from LL, I didn\'t choose to breast feed, from which my son concludes for privates, that I won\'t execute her/it/them on it near. I am one single parent. I was in the navy, and I was the single provider für my son. I been able to get out of the navy as he/it was born, but he/it wouldn\'t has a good Lebensqualitit had ät if I had come out. I remained at home, until he/it was 6 years old, and then, I came out. My son mußte much duration with the daycare-Versorger spends. Between my militärischen duties, the school, and my son looks after, I was to exhausted to pump or breast feed. IchIch verga, To mention ß, that he/it was born early, and he/it almost spent one month in the NICU. He/it had one extremely difficult suction on a nipple. I, that enough on Mit is had ännern, should worry approximately. I don\'t regret the Ernheads of my son breast? Certainly, I believe, thereß each mommies do. Fühle I me guiltily? Sometimes. But I did this, which für my son best was, and formula was my election for him/it. I had none lowermostützung the father, therefore I had to do, that was the best for both of us, what I thought. Now it it a light, healthy, one more gladly boy. Das\'s all this important is.

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through dev_ang, I had become exhaust too many pains, tongs delivery, that was pumping extremely painful... and she/it would turn purple and screams as we took the trouble. Therefore saß I at my kitchen table, that takes the trouble to pump,.. sobbing. My hubby entered, and I said "I can this more" simple doesn\'t do. And that was the end of it. , I had a breast reduction previous also 10 years, and much of something didn\'t come out,

I am glad that I did. She/it thrives, I have the prerogative to now give her one bottle and let done any stuff, daddy can with Fütterungen helps. It works für us.

from princess... it gives, some women, who have problem about me besides many women, only gave up. My mama brestfed my older brother two weeks long then gave up her/it/them and said, that it was because of throttle, that is healed easily. She/it dents even attempt with me or my small brother. I had a friend, who had a baby two days, after I had done, and she/it gave up because her/its/their nipple did sore. Also hurt yes my nipples, but I stoße with the knee, it would be only temporary and in two weeks I didn\'t still has this problem. Für me is value it to nurse it. I am a sthm, so that I the time, the whole day and my Söhne, to nurse, has, if grandparents take the trouble on both sides to put pressure on me to pump, because they want to feed him/it, and baby places him/it which is I at the moment with it uncomfortable. My parents place to ask away, if I will change to formula, and I become only astonished. ICH\'m, that only doesn\'t shift, if there are complications, and I still become of all the m with itöglich, to continue. My mommy really held, because she/it wants to make everything itself didn\'t for him/it which, I think, the most egoistic matter is, I have each hörte. it seems like all people, that to formula feed wählten, her/its/their children believe about me that they know what is the best for my child, and that I land, \'t. this not say that all the formula, that mothers nourish, how it is, and I don\'t say that they do a bad election. I believe at all, that a mother chooses to do, because her/its/their child is completely fine and this mother should be proud of which choice, that she/it did, and should stand behind it. Don\'t bemüht itself, to come for it with an excuse, why you didn\'t do, breast feed only says that it was not the right matter for your family, and is proud that you did this election. I sleep with my son, and anytime, somebody says, this is isn\'t healthy I tell to them für him/it, that I do what is the best for our family, and I don\'t continue with the conversation, because I am proud of my election. I am glad with it, and my son is so with it why it is important, if somebody else isn\'t?

on my 3 is from Marie I. and he/it was breastfeading virtually 7 weeks long. With my first, he/it had jaundice and had problems to snap, but I was decided anyway. His/its pediatrician wanted to give him/it, one bottle of formula and me, Nr said.. he/it then said me, thereß my quiet his/its jaundice bad could do. I didn\'t believes, thereWas ß he/it I from me with the hospital, however, and any ahold could not get from anybody. I had be gedacht\'t very hard wouldn also very stupidly nursing and never took classes or everything. I hardly was in 22 as I had him/it. Therefore he/it gave to him/it one bottle Dr. and went my quiet there. He/it würde after it at all doesn\'t snap that and I couldn\'t occupies itself with the shouting. All said, if it will snap sufficiently hungrily it he/it on it, but how could I starve him/it until then? And something over his/its jaundice? I gave on my 2. one on and wünsche me hadn\'t, but now, I can make it right for this time. I have lowermost betterützung although and learned, going of the matters, that I can, only to lassen\'t is taken care of. My baby, that ernit becomes ährt, breastmilk is more important for me.

d through Ellen that I think that some people simply don\'t take the trouble, and some people can only not. Für those, that not even take the trouble, my niece. She/it told to her/it/them only couldn\'t becomes with Brustfütterung disturbed. It really annoyed me. I could understand, if she/it it and only didn versuchte,es does \'t Spaß, to do it, but she/it never just disturbed. How für those, that can, \'t it gives me. I nursed my first child, not a problem. I then had some years später Brustverkleinerungschirurgischen intervention, because my breasts never declined down, and therefore I had the surgical intervention and planned more children really not the credit of none. Then, I got pregnant sp some yearsäter, and my son first was everything in intensive worry straight away, and secondly, I had the surgical intervention. Therefore, the Brustf worked outütterung never for him/it and I. he/it never snapped on it, and I sufficiently couldn\'t-Expreß milk, to satisfy about him/it. Is with it, why drinks formula mu he/itßte. JaJa, I believe, thereß of nursing best is, but at the end of the day, nobody, in order to push my opinions, wants to defeat me you her/its/their throats.

@ Conifer, you so properly have. My Tochter\'s-Kinderarzt tries to encourage me to hold, that nurses her/it/them. He/it continued to ask me to rearrange her/it/them to formula. I am gladly didn\'t h myselfört him/it however to. 20 percent 1 voices

through * the mommy of sawyer * it gives some women, who don\'t take the trouble. SieSie go in it, because of only Flaschenf she/itütterung in the parenting-Plan has. But there are some women der\'s-Milch immediately doesn\'t enter, and für her/its/their child\'s health must change her/it/them to formula. My milk didn\'t enters because of my c-Teiles 5 days long, and my son therefore lost 10oz in the first few days. Glmy milk came ücklicherweise promptly really in although or maybe I have change to formula.

There are others that cannot get done with the burden, that makes progress with it those first few weeks, and others, that don\'t let needed the supprt-System in order to push through the burden. There is numerous Gründe why Mütter-Don\'t nurses, but I can calm you down that it is not always because they don\'t take the trouble.

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from Michelle, I nursed one year long my first offspring, and my second for 8 months and me hates to hear matters like it, not only, because I pity the babies, but because I had a really difficult time breast feeding, and I am, also makes others sure. Other women, who nursed, schließen me gladly in it one you superiority parties however I believes, that it is disgusting, and yes, I my you, es\'s always not possibly for people. It was für me awfully painfully, yes, I went to a lactation specialist, who is spoken with my Ob/gyn, friends and family. I, for which it makes wrong, wasn\'t my daughter snapped completely on it, I have only madly sensitive nipples, I always have had a SportbH every day. I produced only milk in a breast and pumped on Brüche, with the work, into my car. I was erschöpft, anemic, always sick, miserable and hostile. Hopefully, it gave an advantage to my children, but I didn\'t gets, she/it or lives, to geniusßen. yes, any people soldier through it, but I place auf\'t it takes people badly that didn\'t do. I ahßte every minute of nursing and I am sure that I am not the single.

a long history goes in that he/it asks only Here. I wanted ausschlieReally nurses of ßlich my son and thought my husband rediculous for wasting money on bottles anyway. My son was Lücke, water broke with 37 wks, and therefore I had an emergency, that c shares. IchIch nursed my son in the hospital, gl,ätten you, as I had only colostrum. The nurses continued to help me, then, they brought to me a lactation advisor of this couldn\'t I stands. You/they didn\'t likes, as he/it aß, while it cause to sleep, him/it to it brought slowly to eat, so that she/it shook him/it in order to wake him/it and so he/it cried. I wanted to beat her/it/them. Then, she/it made the shooshing-Methode of this wei I didn\'tß approximately, and she/it made loud right for him/it beside my ear, and it didn\'t calm him/it down at all, I was willing to call with her and to have her/its/their distant lololol. She/it went, and I placed to nurse away, then, a nurse informed me, I should formula ergänzen, until my milk came in cause, that my son cost weight. So I nursed, then, one bottle gave. I immediately began because it had handle questions, but, to go away, placed. My milk came in 8 days after the birth, and I was to be helped with at home with nobody, and my boobs were as stones with milk, this, over my breast runs, hard. My son had already snapping questions, but now he/it wouldn\'t-Klinke with all the cause was I so hard and slippery. The drying off of didn\'t helps to cause the milk, a nonstop Str wasömung. I had pains badly sooooooooo, didn, \'t läßt causes I needed a pump, that my husband didn\'t think, it so that he/it would not buy it. I am a stay with Heimatmama with it myself didn\'t my own money to buy it has. Therefore, I waited for engorgement, before the Bemühen, to work again as a nurse, to go down. He/it würde 15 to 20 minutes every single room feeding, it screams while I tried to bring him/it to snap, then I, \'d repairs one bottle. I place wei auf\'tß, I like many days him/it, in order to work as a nurse, fought but it was REALLY tough cause, that he/it ate each 2 hrs, so that much shouting was, while the effort to work every day as a nurse. Schließlich went only straight bottle I, and didn\'t make anything 2 weeks long, you develop, my cousin let me borrow her/its/their pump. I already dried up, but I worked, my supply aufwärts, to bring back, I got only 10 ml each 2 hrs. I pumped 3 months long and mixed it in his/its formula, and the whole way of this most, that I ever got, was 2 oz in a Vollständigkeit 24 hrs. Pumps place only auf\'t stimulates, you natürliches silence. My main problem führte the bottle one, my son developed nipple preference and rejected to snap by the first bottle. I believe, thereß the lactation advisor an idiot was, because my son worked well as a nurse, but she/it insisted that he/it was a lethargic eater. Newborns should sleep a quantity and THAT worries, how slowly they eat as it, you yearn as they eat. And all should know, thereß you NEVER a baby shakes!!!!!!!!!! I accuses the nurses for pushing me in order to give one bottle and the lactation advisor of it to my son to be stupid.

from Starsfan... I cannot speak for everyone. But I can speak of my experience

I know with my first that I gave up too early. I had several breast, the questions fütterte. Für one my milk didn\'t enters in 8 until day. And my daughter had difficulties of snapping. SowieSowie therefore really had Z I until the end of the pregnancyähe pregnancy, 9 months of handing over and a DVT in the 26 weeks, I was drained only emotionally and physically and was finished as having bad PPD. I, that am wanted to breast, ernhead me so bad. But I also really didn\'t wants help. Too many see I Doctors, nurses during the pregnancy of this I only didn\'t wants help of a lactation advisor or each other.

Therefore, I finished to pump for her/it/them. And I pumped 12 months long, I gave the first 2 or three weeks of no formula. And I place auf\'t, this recommends to each other, ouchßer if that is, that absolutely for her/its/their child, who got breast milk, the single way. Pumping so ausschließlich is, you time consuming only madly and difficult. And despite all real and verst one(s)I had ändlichen difficulties with breast feeding, I know that better little longer it me one had been had tried. But I gave up beside end of the 2 weeks. I place wei auf\'tß, when I would have been successful, but I gave up to early. At least in my opinion.

With my second care was easy. There were not any real problems, at least nothing almost as bad as my first. She/it only immediately snapped without every real help of me after my c-Teil. So weiß I, that some mothers have easier duration with breast feeding, as others. Some mühen itself really from. But I think much, can the fight, not everything however many, overpowers.

from mom Pickbring, that is the actual percent of women, who cannot nurse physically, between 1-2 percent, I believe is extremely rare with it, if you think about it. Women, who see, thereNurses of ß I and the information offers, "I then can conclude" x that I think feeling uncertainly about her/its/their decision. My usual answer is nevermind, if you tried your best\', but I cannot help besides thinking, maybe, if they had taken the trouble more heavily,...... nursing then I and my son didn\'t come easily at all. A Notfall-C-Teil meant, thereß he/it too drowsy was, about for, to work 24 hours in the course as a nurse, and as he/it got him/it enough alarm only couldn, \'t-Klinke. It was, a hard couple of the weeks bothers f for itselfür both of us however me from, was stolz\'wieder in my decision and my feeling for us tough in it for the long route. Now 8 months in and strongly going. I place auf\'t accused people für resigning, as it is no breeze, and however, this formula can reclaim the middle of the long nights for me, you believe that some women could take the trouble more heavily, yes. 20 percent 1 voices

many reasons are from Ellen There, that a woman could not nurse, and some women are creative at the moment coming on what seems like a good reason.

Be lacking at education and lack of family support (from partners or parents), 2 big reasons are. Many people don\'t understand, thereß it dangers of it, to feed an infant formula, gives, and it is not like good" "as well. and it is difficult, itself too bemühen, to nurse, if your own mother, or the Partner\'s-Mutter tells you, as thinly and watery your milk is, or that the baby is hungry.

Much hospital sabotages new Mütter-Recht on the beginning with institutional protocols, did designs for her/its/their convenience, but not in the mother\'s best interests and baby, that get out at a good beginning. Mit is instructed üttern to supplement, "only a small" one, that they could prefer to sleep through the night, as rises to nurse her/its/their baby, or this "just bottle will be no problem."

It is estimated that 25 percent of women suffered any form of the abuse in the U.S.. It can f very difficultür a woman, who suffered from sexual abuse, to necessarily admit about the intimacy for nursing, is.

And bad nursing management accounts for many cases, "failure in quiet". it is für doctors und/oder nurses not unusually, to advise new mothers, a new baby to beschränken\'s-Zeit with the breast, number of feedings, or, to propose a pacifier.

It actually is quite rare to have a medical condition, that would exclude nursing, or, to take even medication, that is uncertain. But little Doctors and less pharmacists consult milk exact indications of the security of medications and mothers\', so many women have, you don\'t trust your doctor to nurse fear, in order to even begin, if you have one question each about the security of a medication. Use the infantrisk web site and get information into those of U. from the best means.. It gives f an others web siteür Canadian mommies. I believe, thereß it motherisk is.

Mommies don\'t know any many matters about her/its/their new babies, and little of them need the time to actually learn about nursing. Thereß a gigantic obstacle for itself is. You/they place auf\'t understands, like simple it für is her/its/their own bodies to do about milk and has enough quantity to nourish her/its/their babies for more than 6 months. And some only believe, thereß formula feeding the best and easiest way, to nourish a baby, is. You/they place auf\'t wants gestört becomes.

Leave us not forgotten that some mothers must go back to work shortly after birth and must feel, you smooth out itself, that this is an obstacle for nursing, shortly. You/they don\'t understand, thereProtects ß laws her/its/their right there to pump and milk for her/its/their infants delivers, and that it is both for her/it/them much healthier, as formula feeding.

PROCESS: Medication, that is contraindicated in it to nurse like Schilddrüsenmedikament, antibiotics and pain medication, mentioned one of the poster. This is a good example of medical personnel, who gives misinformation. Almost all antibiotics are für the nursing mother certainly, to take, most pain medications, you remember that women nurse right, and most thyroid gland medications, after surgical births. Indeed, most medications are sure to take, während she/it nurses, particularly, if formula feeding (a known danger (that increases the risk of the infant death in the first year)) the alternative is. Examples of medication, that are contraindicated, könnte, strong mood stabilizers (lithium) are, anti Kerbsarzneimittel and experimental medications. Decongestants are contraindicated, also, but not, because they will harm the baby. You/they können the milk supply decreases, together with any hormonal medication.

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through Serena\'s mommy quiet I my 7 weeks old. and omg, the i never thought, thereß it would be, this hard i of her/its/their formula gave some to times, i-Filz awfully for it, but last week i was ready to give up because of an Ed milk management. but un the Bemühen still and his/its very hard one if everyone about me, all my cousins are nobody with babies, formula feed her/its/their baby, understands, how roughly it is,... baby doesn\'t very often sleeps everyone seems a quantity and a feed, so that i much support cause doesn\'t get, to think, the sufficiently i not milk has, and tells that I, that gave her/its/their bottle,... it only does me, wanna resigns... his/its tough and i one doesn\'t have the Hilfs-i-Bedürfnis