A 8 year old child\'s nursing, your thoughts?

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Mornin GE! ICH\'ll betted, thereß you therefore, to almost have this baby, is excited! I say going all well für you!

Listen... that is SIMPLY wrong in my book. If can go a child and speech for him/it, \'s almost sick. I really explored this stuff as I was preggers, and NO was, I could this Brustfütterung finds, after had prepared every real additional benefit 2 years. Matter of the fact, that now proved most of the research, thereß the first 6 months the most critical PERIOD is. I have a medical background and really did my research.

I had a friend, who still was breast, that fed her/it/them 5 years, and if l Iooked found in it I, that psychologists say at any point, it actually becomes addictive for "enjoyments", concludes to the mother. Weiß I this will piss some away... besides advises you something? As my gf went to theirs, she/it informed her/it/them of THE exact same matter. The mother recognizes it, but it, maybe not einmal\'s almost a sexual deal, if you it für this long one does. You/they mußte to it go to discuss to hold if you can believe this. Ewwww! And 8 years old simply is WRONG! There is nobody, that can tell me, a 8-jähriges still needs to breast feed... no way in he*ll!

You/they do this, which is right for you and NEVER left, everyone tells you otherwise. I wasn\'t fähig to breast feed for long. Had serious difficulty. . everything went to 3 lactation specialists and them, which schließlich is said, there was not anything, that I could, with it otherwise. Do you guess something? My son is extremely healthy, over which 95 percentages in his/its height, is with a healthy weight, RARE becomes sick, and is a GATE-Student (him/it) extremely brightly e, according to seemingly not caused breast, that lived for long, NO damage.

I wish you the best... pleases you for itself on hearing joy about this new bundle! God Bless! =)

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Mother of 6

from Noah and the Ava\'s Mommy She must hold. This puts später her/its/their child only for emotional and mental conflicts in lives on.

It sounds and you don\'t know look like she/it when going is to be left.

through. Wow, about ich\'d, this Brustf saysütterung in this age... it is, the mommy spends that has attachment and must sever the umbilical cord.

IchIch believes into the long run, that it could damage particularly to the child, if friends get wind from it. This child würde nascent mercilessly teased finishes.

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Mommy to a 2 year old son and 33 wks pregnant with a girl

through sarahsch.... my cousin nursed, until her/its/their son like 3 was, and even this was so crazy. He/it würde to her goes and lifts her/its/their shirt and does it from itself. There is not any reason absolute old a child of this, this still should do. You should a 8 year old at all, it could border on psychological abuse, not.

through Reynold.... this is sexual abuse plan, and benifits is no more simple.There for the child at this point, the authority step is useless.I-Hoffnung there and takes, this womens jokes!

through? I think this is exact moraly-Unrecht, I believe if they are sufficiently old, thereß in order to drink milks, and attaches importance one cup to her/its/their own thenk, that they need the bottle and the breast oof,..., but I am no one to be judged, to everyone his/its own one
process, I looked only at this video... be already of the children bringing in disorder she/it, that name her/it/them, drawin-Bilder and touches her/it/them in the morning, jargon she/it understands, that that is not normal

through my 1. arrived insane and sick

from DAN C WRONG!!!!!
did our girl hold after 5 months, and would only one bottle take, do I guess this so was normal.., but you give the election to children not to decide if they want to stop this???
she/it Dont\'s has age the mental or social capacity this you on that occasion, in order to decide, which will be later in lives for them damaging.
Is this, why a child under 12 cannot commit any crime legally, has her/it/them Dont\'s directly the mental capacity to distiguish and injustice.. granting to our court system /
That is a more repulsively vid.., but should elicit any quite strong answer. 14 percent 1 voices

through Robert and leesa "judgemental question=judemental answers my opinion completely"

i believes that there his/its injustice and i understands, from where these parents come, because breast milk is very nourishing for a child, but is carrots and celery with it. It is more easily, she/it für, to calm bed/nap, you do nursery rhymes and therefore yields music. N brings itähe between the mother and the child, the headquarters on mommys-Schoß, the a history reads, it also does... puts aside you your boobs and gives you him/it plz any real milk in one cup!

from La, Bohemian contends, who is sick. I place wei auf\'tß, that whoever has the bigger emotional problem,... the mother or the 8 years old. The single way, that I sähe, that this event is in very underdeveloped countries.

from emmy Uhhh... this was quite horrifying. I remember a quantity from it when I was in 8, and if my mommy me the antäte, I probably would be at the moment in intensive psychological therapy!

from Katie C, you are all thinking

Breast = sexual organ.

That is not simple, as to nurse mommies, it sees.

It is to me one little strange, that the child is in 8 and still also wants. Klänge one small co-dependent.

I would say the same matter about a sleeping old 8 years in mommy and the bed of daddy.

But is not\' child abuse. More carefully ontop this HIGH HORSE. Es\'s gefährlich on there!

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Both of my children nursed for more than 1 years.

from Syd Um.. bulk, that I will disaccustom with 8mths-10mths, if they can ask therefore, as no way, that they are toooooooooo old!

of cottage, I can think a child passed at no believable reason to breast feed. All my child self entwöhnte by 6 months. , as REAL meal whom wouldn eingeführt wurde,zieht it \'t before?) I fühle strong, that this is a means of uncertain woman to feel necessary for her/its/their children, kinda like the mommies of this makes you everything" for her/its/their children... she/it doesn\'t cultivate any independence or autonomy. ICH\'m certainly believe her/it/them, thereß she/it what is the best for her/its/their children, does but at any point, it becomes a control question. These often are the mommies, that other Frauengefühl gladly bad for this not being does, as dedicated a parent, as they are. ICHin some this Nazi rammed \'ve likes mommies, sometimes his/its Brustf, in the course of the yearsütterung that I am everything for FYI, sometimes his/its natural birth, or comes back birth, or training at home.. something always it is.. she/it becomes militant only in her/its/their belief... not much can make you over it besides smile and nod, you inform them of his/its wonderful one and slowly away back.

from AV Wenn this true is, then, there is therefore something very wrong with the mommy. Is unacceptable, unexcusable a 8 year to work old as a nurse.

No, I never would nurse long for this. A few years is sufficiently sufficiently für both mommy as well as child. I nursed my son til, thereß he/it 18months old one was.

from organic mommy to 11 + 1 angels! Oh my, the Stört quite. My children of all, the silence, became before they were ages in 1. 6 - 7 months, the cut with most of my children had burst.

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Mommy of 5

through Danica-M, I believe that child will be scared for lives. PersI never nursed önlich, but if I did, it NEVER would go at her/its/their second birthdays.

through? In many Lalters and it is cultures general practice outside the USA in order to nurse your children until 5 years old and sometimes older. Often in L, to alter, like the Middle East and Africa, where the parents have sometimes many children, is es\'s-Mutter milk for food the single source of the meal, that a child gets. In middle For eastern countries, it is legal and completely acceptable for an Arabic man, from his/its wife to stillen\'s-Brüste beside his/its infant sons. I will nurse my children until they rotate 2 years old. If you in a country weras, where birth control is not easy to find or because of the government is prohibited, or religion of your country and you grow on poor because your government doesn\'t-Sorge over the people then must concern you about other ways for itself, that as "unrefined" or "strange" could be seen in order to populate in western countries.

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American woman married to an Arabic man. 14 percent 1 voices

from PurplePe.... a 8 year old one silence is unrefined. If the child can ask for the breast, they are daf to oldür. If a child is sufficiently old, about alltto eat ägliches meal and to drink, they need no more every nutrition of the breast milk. The woman, the one 8 year aged offspring ernährt, it does for itself and no more for the child\'s need. Which erschließt on the woman a whole other topic.

through? Pleasan.... it is not gew in some cultures, like ours,öhnlich, last, to nurse. But in many cultures is not gewöhnlich, to disaccustom before 2. Numerous studies showed despite defiance of any cultural habits of one quarter, thereß it a big benefit from it, to work as a nurse in the second year of living, gives, and beyond.

My opinion is personal in standing with the official politics of the American academy of pediatrics and the American academy of the family Physicians:

The American academy of the pediatrics recommends that nursing should be continued "at least for the first year of living, and beyond for as yearn you itself as wished both from mother and child... increased, duration of nursing lends significant health and development benefits of the child and the mother... it doesn\'t give any upper border to the duration of nursing and no proof of psychologic or development damage from nursing in the third year of living, or longer." (AAP 2005)
DieDie American academy of the family Physicians recommends that nursing continues lives throughout the first year, and that nursing offers of considerable benefits to both mother as well as child "beyond the first year, and should continue as it, you yearn wished as both." You also notices, that, "if the child is younger than two years full age, the child in elevated danger of the illness is, whether it is disaccustomed." (AAFP 2001)

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JaJa, okay 8 year is extreme completely!! even a villager of the remotest-Teil from Africa would agree you! I make beleive from it, me the video, to look at, thereß she/it real felt, that she/it made what was she/it beleived, for best interest in her/its/their daughters. I wnever nurses this long ürde, but if there is not any proof to support, that it then harms this a child, \'s not my place, in order to judge. I always become Brüste as breast glands sees, and sex doesn\'t play, so maybe das\'s, why I me from it one little less nauseated" "feels, as some of the other responders.

BTW, the child disaccustomed after the video shortly, was shot. This video is brought up on y/a to a quantity.

Personally, I think his/its each Mütter-Wahl, to nurse for the length of the time, she/it feels comfortable is that days, weeks or years. But yes, in 8 pushes it. 14 percent 1 voices

through all_my_a.... checks from this article, that the mommy wrote about this film. You/they will find, thereß she/it quite intelligent is, and while most children disaccustom between 2.5 and 7 years of course, there is, rooms, to wobble on both sides. I still nurse my 2.5 years old and place auf\'t plans, as soon he/it you every time entwöhnt has. I believed, thereß it strange was, to, before I knew, about what I talked. Sometimes if we persönlich to new matters is exposed, our opinions change!

from Dave

Because of his/its low class hid answer

You/they can nurse a child up to them, is approximately 15. and she/it können still nutrient of it gets. so really, mommy saves only the family money. Prestige to mommy!

... Consent, that is a small one for sturgeons, i must admit.

through young mommy 1990

Because of his/its low class hid answer

Please train your self over nursing and human lactation before the doing of such comments.

And no, it doesnt damages the child.

I became for five years and nursed sexually healthy iam.

More humanly breastmilk doesnt loosely his/its kindliness after of X-Menge of time.

I dont understands, AS people believe, it is for the mother.... Iam, that nurses old baby a 7 month, one it certaintly isnt for ME.Quite frankly believes I, that it is the opposite.

People are certain to breafeed for 2 to 7 years of course, if it is allowed to self, you disaccustom.

Helen Neumann remembers to run during a nighttime thunderstorm in the bedroom of her/its/their parents and to have gotten into her/its/their bed. Alto she/it opened the snaps of her/its/their Mutter\'s four years, Flanellnachthemd bloomed and worked as a nurse. "I remember it as heat", that lives Iowa in her/it city, Helen explains. "The flannel was soft; I felt sure there."

Although her/its/their older sister disaccustomed herself with 11 months, Helen continued to work as a nurse with night until she/it was approximately five years old. Now, Helen still suits her/its/their mother in old 30, with a baby of her/its/their own one, near and speaks almost every day and the call häufig at the telephone with her. Helen\'s-Tochter, Irene, was born blue and flabby, after more than 40 hours of work, and immediately became für the Neonatal Unit of the mercy hospital warms up. Helen still had this the nötige change, to insist on care,: she/it picked up her/its/their tiny newborn from the incubator, IV and all, and put her/it/them on the breast. Some babies, as Helen Neumann, \'s-Schwester entwöhnt itself easy and spontaneous. Other children, as of Reed Carr, h,ören not on, to work voluntarily as a nurse, until they are toddlers. "Reed worked as a nurse before he/it went to sleep, and his/its mother, Catherine Carr, a La Leche-Verband leader of Hardwick, Massachusetts, says, as she/it woke up. "After his/its last care, he/it turned to me, said, thank you, it was mommy\' and this."

Catherine, that somebody, that for longer than some months a baby had nursed, never had met, had hoped to be capable to work as a nurse one year long. She/it recognized fast, there, To disaccustom ß with one year, any sense of her/its/their children didn\'t do. "At this point, they still are babies. I couldn\'t places itself lasts. If it really für she/it would be, it was right for me."

You yearn enough for itself to remember it to have worked as a nurse despite the overwhelmingly positive memories of children, that nursed, American culture has a clear and categorical prejudice against it to work children.1 older as a nurse, "if they are sufficiently old in order to ask therefore, they be an often-repeated saying too old in order to be nursing." Es\'s, as if Americans fürchten that if a child is shrewd-capable to speak and remembers, there is some unsuitable one, even obscene, over care.

Similar infants, older children profit on innumerable manners of care. Women, who nurse her/its/their children, because stretched, periods quote many advantages on the other handover, to continue the nursing relationship,: care, to create a strong bond between mother and child, helps, prepares comfort and nutrition, if a child is sick, fast a frustrated toddler calms or helps a child to regain setting after a fall, more easily nap brings to timing, prepares physical contact and psychological comfort, and helps to ease sibling rivalry, if a new baby is born.2,

Nursing older children also sometimes have unexpected benefits. Tracie Yautz, worked as a nurse for her first two offspring from harmony, Pennsylvania, until her/it/them fünf and her/its/their third were until he/it disaccustomed himself with four and a half. In the six weeks after you eldest son, Steven, to work as a nurse, had stopped, his/its skin broke in a dreadful rash out, that they later learned, was caused by eczema. Steven never had had a skin problem, während he/it as a nurse worked, but was bothered with allergies, after he/it had held. Kristen Bernard, a homebirth-Hebamme, that visited more than 500 births and that works her/it/them as a nurse, the three year aged son, Marley, believes, thereß the emotional benefits of nursing past three essential is. "I has say Bernard a very sure boy, who is sure in itself and his/its body". "I believe that it is a very special time, that he/it and I share, and this brings him/it obvious joy and security. He/it takes a deep sigh and relaxes completely in his/its Körper. Es\'s a really nice matter. Wir\'wieder totally the Bemühen, to find, so somewhere."

Bernard believes that this prolonged care gives problem-solving abilities and compassion also to children. If of Marleywürden \'s-Zähne into her/its/their nipple in a painful way digs, would stop her/it/them him/it from care and would show him/it the teeth stains. "I am sorry, mommy! I place auf\'t, it makes deliberate", her/its/their Marley said. "He/it did a conscious effort to change his/its behavior", Bernard explains. "It taught him/it to be self-more conscious and more careful."

My older daughter worked as a nurse in a factual way as she/it was a newborn. You/they würde drinks, she/it fills herself and then, in less than five minutes, slams you unceremoniously from the breast. Because she/it preferred other forms, I looked after itself to cuddle to care, thereß she/it itself early would disaccustom. JetztJetzt old sometimes continues her/it/them at the späten afternoon three years, three or four times per Tag-in the morning, before nap time, to work as a nurse, and always before the bed.

You/they see can, you love for her/it/them from working as a nurse on the manner, she/it plays with her/its/their doll. Schcaustic little pie, Sweeeeetie Pie", she/it calls out, as she/it lifts the doll from the ground. "Sokay. Don\'t-Schrei, Sch,caustic little pie. Do you want nummies on the nursing chair? Approve!" You populates very tenderly itself and her/its/their dollies on the chair then and dissolves on her/its/their shirt to offer her/its/their baby, dolls up nummies. She/it sits quietly für several for this three year old ball of the energy minute exceptionally and stares peacefully into the distance.

Despite all this benefit, most American women, that her/its/their children nurse, because stretched, periods do so secretly and fear cultural disapprobation and even licit story. Women erkleras, the children over three quiet ones, that they are discreetly over it, and rare, if ever, it is impossible to know nurse in public.3 It, how many children in old three, four, five or six are drunk at the breast, because no extensive study in outstretched nursing ever was led in this country.4, we know that successfully few women in the AMERICAN nurse for any length of the time. Although at least even the mainstream, the American academy of the pediatrics of nursing für one year now recommends, only 14 percent is nursed American babies this long.5,6 presently in 2000, 68.4 percent of the mothers initiated nursing, and 31.4 percent of the mothers nursed old infant its six month." 7

Care simply is not the norm in America. Research of anthropologists is in view of it and primatologists, thereß shows, that stretched out care, actually the norm among primates, all more important, is. Universally known primatologist Franz de Waal observed, thereß tandem care usually in bonobos, that does her/its/their young as a nurse, is, until they are approximately four years old. De Waal writes, "One sees the mother walking bipedally with an infant, who hangs at her/its/their stomach and a youthful riding on her/its/their back." 8 maybe even interesting is led the research by Katherine A. Dettwyler, interconnected professor of anthropology and nutrition at Texas in & m university, on as well as nonhuman-Primaten also as infant, who drinks methods over a variety of human cultures at the breast. Dettwyler writes, thereß she/it a four year old, or even a six year old, nurses both is normal and natural for people", and argues that the "predictions for a natural age to disaccustom in modern human populations, was based on the nonhuman primate patterns, you move full age between 2.5 and 7.0 years." 9,10

Dettwyler identifies to predict several ways by looking at the disaccustoming patterns in nonhuman-Primaten if human children stopped to quiet, if cultural beliefs and expectations aside would be put. Quoting of data of a variety of the studies, einschlie,ßlich splits one, that examined 135 primate species, during the indication also of it, with gorillas and chimpanzees we more than 98 percent of our genetic material, Detwyller corresponds to each other disaccustoming with the following variables: Birth weight progresses to attaining adult weight, average adult height, gestation length and the timing of the outbreak of the first molars. Using each of these bases of analysis, Dettwyler shows a row of m in peopleöglicher disaccustoming ages and depends from the population, the size of the adult, the installment of the growth in each population and other factors. For example, a primatologist corresponded to each other the age, with the outbreak of the first molars in 21 different primate species too entwöhnen. If human primates should follow this design, würden our babies, to work age.11 as a nurse between five and a half and six years, stops

Meredith Small according to, a cultural anthropologist with Cornell-Universität, the angry-cultural data in human populations substantiates Dettwyler\'s hominid-Entwurf. In her/its/their book Our Babies, us,: like biology and culture form the way we parent, little one points of human cultures, this Practice Pflege stretched out, and writes, "in all cases, this hominid-Entwurf of the way babies was fed human history for 99 percent, reminds full age on breast milk as the primary or single meal until two years or with it, and care, that continues more years for several in general." 12 small one gives to this claim proof of data from as well as old, as also contemporary human cultures. Analysis this Shows river to definitive proof that infants were nursed exclusively for the first year of living remains of American Indian bones of a place near the Missouri and then disaccustomed gradually, as they were old.13 approximately five years, this? Kung San of Südafrika nurses her/its/their babies for three to four years. Ausschließliche and frequent be in the habit of grounds for reduced fertility and longer intervals between pregnancies. As soon as the mother becomes again pregnant, entwöhnt she/it her/its/their baby.14

Despite the proof, that more sociologically from more zoological, and anthropological research is generated, that stretched out care, is as well as normal, as also expects, it usually is professi for medical

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